My best advice on this is always to expect nothing more than the room you pay for. Now, seriously, I'm not trying to be a downer, but the fact of the matter is that, in reality, upgrades are few and far between.
As I've said before to others, don't over think your trip. It is so easy to get caught up in trying to nail down every little detail (and the disboards are a great place to get carried away from reality very quickly), and that can actually detract from the trip in the case that something doesn't go exactly as planned or hoped for.
I approach every trip thanking the good Lord that I get to stay at the Polynesian again, and leave the rest up to Disney magic.
I hope that you do have a magical and wonderful anniversary. The fact that you'll be celebrating it at the Polynesian and in WDW should pretty much guarantee that. Relax, have a blast, and let the Disney World work it's magic
You're going to have an awesome trip no matter what room you're in
I know you are absolutely correct. I honestly am ecstatic that we can afford to stay here thanks to my AP discount this year. We've talked about going to Disney, maybe to AK (with Savanna view) before for our anniversary, but I think I am going to really like this more. But I could probably camp & enjoy my Disney stay, such is the magic of Disney! But I sure wouldn't turn down whatever comes my way thanks to a little Pixie Dust!
I've never messed with requests during our previous trips, with the exception of requesting a first-floor room because my old-man husband (who is only 35!) has bad knees. That having been said, are there elevators at the Poly???
Also, I have a question regarding dinners. We currently have ressies at Coral Reef for our anniversary because we enjoy the lobster bisque, and I'm always happy with a good steak and he's a seafood person. We have several aquariums in our house, so we feel right at home there too! (And a little jealous!) Does anyone know if they would try to accommodate a request to be seated next to the aquarium?
We're doing La Nouba on Saturday, so we're planning to go to the House of Blues in DTD for dinner. Those will both be new experiences.
Then Sunday - our last day - we decided to go back to Poly to eat, then partake in the Electrical Water Pageant (never seen before) and Wishes from the beach. Currently the only reservations I could get were for Kona (a little before 7). That should give us plenty of time to get to the beach and set up camp for the parade & fireworks right? Any recommendations for beach locations?
I am going to keep checking to see if 'Ohana has availability instead. Poly lovers - which restaurant is better for dinner??? I can't make up my mind. From Kona, the Pomegranate Barbecued Pork Chop and Teriyaki-style New York Strip both sound good. 'Ohana's dinner offerings sound pretty good too though. I've never been to either - but do have breakfasts scheduled for each. I'm looking forward to trying the Tonga Toast!
Thanks for all the help! 2 weeks until my

anniversary

- 13 days until we check into the Poly!

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And then again - 5 weeks from today - it's POR with the our kids, my mom, & my oldest sister! That's a 9 day stay - yay!
Thanks to both trips, I have an AP this year (hubby too)! Since I'd hate for it to go to waste (ha!), does anyone remember when they generally release AP discounted rates for the week between Christmas & New Years??? I am so pathetic, aren't I? Already wanting to plan ANOTHER trip this year. But hey, I have to check up on my castle. My grandma's nickname for me was "Cinderelly" so I feel entitled!

Besides, we went for that week back in 2008/2009 and LOVED it. It's just a whole different experience & I'd love to do it again.