I just looked at your wedding website, and I can see why you'd want everyone to see it! It's chock full of information, and it shows that you worked hard on it! I love all the little Jack heads!
I feel the same way you do... it's an advertisement to say, Hey I'm not home! and Hey crash my wedding!
I've read that it's a good idea to have someone stay at your house for at least the day of the wedding to make sure the house is secure.
But I still feel sketchy sharing all that information to the world, so I haven't posted my site either.
You did a great job!