More talk of welcome bags:
We decided, to save money, we only wanted to do welcome bags for our immediate family (the wedding party *parents* + our siblings + grandmas). We bought some great beach towels at disneyshopping.com and the total for all the towels (plus 2 for us, of course!

) was around $100.
I bought a lot of trading pins on ebay (50!) for about $70, which worked out to less than $2 a pin, so I was ok with it... and I think we're going to give all of our guests a couple...
After hearing back from the fam about joining us, we have gone WAY over our 18 people (we're up to almost 40!),
so after specifically telling people at the holidays that seats are first come first serve (we still wanted to keep it intimate, and can't afford the minimum room requirement for wishes), we've got our VIPs.
We told the rest they are still more than welcome to come down for a Disney vacation and our reception dinner.

They seemed ok with this! Possibly because no one really likes the "ceremony" part anyway, plus it's only about an hour, so they'll get over it...plus then they can join us in the A/C instead of having to sit outside
Side note: While on ebay looking for pins I became incredibly addicted. I've never been a pin trader, but I'm about to become one!! (Part of me wanted to horde all of the pins for DF and me!

So, I bid on a couple that I really needed to have...I only won two of them, but they're awesome.
I totally adore the dinah one -- I'm thinking of doing a cat lanyard... but there are so many good characters that I love (tink, eeyore, etc) I'm such a noob!!
