DVC Members may use the free valet service at BWV, VWL and BCV- regardless where they are staying.
DVC members are NOT entitled to use the pools or pool-hop UNLESS they are staying at a DVC resort and have "DVC Member" printed on their room ID. Restaurants may still offer a discount to DVC members regardless where they are staying- although the intent of most member perks is applicable only when staying in a DVC Resort on points.
DVC was never presented as a membership that entitled members (local or otherwise) to use the resort facilities and services unless actually a guest staying at the resort.