A Big Woman vs Big Rides

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Twilightlover ,
You continue to be totally judgemental. You have no idea why those people are in the scooter. Maybe they too have injuries that prevent them from getting around and working out.
Why don't you just go on enjoying your thin body and let us overwieght people deal with our own lives!
Stop people bashing--it is even less becoming than extra pounds!
 
1--For most people, eating is a pleasurable experience. It's a biological necessity (you said only water??) that most cultures have elevated to a high social status. But for some, eating is a compulsion. Men and women of all ages force themselves to eat too much or too little, and suffer tremendous psychological pain when they do. Eating, body weight and image become an obsession that damages relationships and has serious medical consequences.

Food addiction is a disorder characterized by preoccupation with food, the availability of food and the anticipation of pleasure from the ingestion of food.

Food addiction involves the repetitive consumption of food against the individuals better judgment resulting in loss of control and preoccupation or the restriction of food and preoccupation with body weight and image.

It is real, not a "lame" excuse.

2--If you lost 20 pounds in 2 weeks, you did not do it in a healthy manner. Safe weight loss is about 2 pounds per week, tops. On low carb, I can take off 20 pounds in a month, but no way in 2 weeks. The only way would be if you were a rather large individual or a man--they lose faster than women, lucky boogers.

3--asmit4 hit it...unless you've dealt with this, you have no idea what it's really like. To sit back and judge or to suggest simple solutions..."hey, get off your a$$ and go to the gym," well, that's just wrong. So healthy choices are easy for you. Terrific, but it's just not that simple. If it were that easy, we would have a lot less overweight people in the world. Are there some overweight people who just don't exercise? Of course, but you over generalized. For many, it's just not easy. Good for you that it is and I pray you never have to experience otherwise.
 
I never said it was easy. In fact i know it's hard to go to the gym, and the make correct choices. Nothing worthwhile is easy. I lost 20lbs by simple diet and exercise. Did it suck eating brown rice and broccoli, yes! But my body looks better and I feel better about myself. It was healthy, no pills, no diet shakes. Lots of fruit, veggies, and lean meat. As far as personally dealing with it, I've watched my mother struggle with her weight all my life, but one day, at 38yo, she said after almost passing out walking up the stairs, "Being fat sucks. I have to change so I don't die at 40." She lost weight by going on walks, taking the stairs more often, cutting as much fat as possible out of her diet, not buying crap food at the grocery store, simple changes.

Food addiction?:rotfl2: How about excuses. Instead of eating an entire bag of chips, buy baked lays and have a small bowl. I think the excuses people make about why they can't lose weight are ridiculous. Overweight people don't lose weight because they don't want to. They make excuses and then they have people support their excuses with, "oh it's OK you can't help yourself". YOU CAN help yourself. It's going to suck and it's going to be hard but when you see the pounds disappear you'll become even more motivated to keep going. This is why I like, "The Biggest Loser" because Jillian Michael's calls people out on their inability to push themselves.
 
Twilightlover
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Boy...it must be nice to be so perfect!!
Have you ever taken the time to truly "LISTEN" to what anyone else is saying!!???
I am a heavy person who goes to the gym five times a week, eats healthy food, and still is overweight. I inherited my mothers slow metabolism. I am healthy, but still overweight. I am probably stronger (due to my workouts) than my skinny friends, but I'm sure you would look at me and assume I was a lazy pig!
 

You really have no idea. Really.

Watching your mother is not the same as living it. And it doesn't sound like your mother had any kind of eating disorder. ie. Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia Nervosa or Compulsive Overeating.

Curious...did you ever tell your mother she was fat because she was lazy?


Article from USAToday:

Obesity has long been blamed on weak willpower, overeating, genetics and lack of exercise. Now scientists increasingly are seeing signs that suggest there may be an additional contributor: food addiction.

Monday night and again today, dozens of the nation's leading researchers in obesity, nutrition and addiction planned to discuss whether food has addictive properties for some people. They're gathering in New Haven, Conn., at a meeting sponsored by Yale University's Rudd Center for Food Policy and Obesity.

"We believe that there is sufficient science to suggest there is something to this, so we are bringing the leading authorities together to decide whether food addiction is real and what the underlying psychology and biology might be," says Kelly Brownell, director of the Rudd Center.

"It's surprising that our field has overlooked this concept for so long," he says. "Society blames obesity only on the people who have it and has been close-minded to other explanations." (People like you, it seems)

Support for the idea of food addiction comes from animal and human studies, including brain imaging research on humans, says Mark Gold, chief of addiction medicine at the McKnight Brain Institute at the University of Florida, who is a co-chair for the meeting.

I think the excuses people make about why they can't lose weight are ridiculous. Overweight people don't lose weight because they don't want to.

This is one of the most asinine things I have ever ready. Especially that last sentence. How many overweight people out there do you think wake up everyday and love their image?

Some more info for you to ponder:


Addiction

During binges compulsive overeaters consume as much as 5,000 calories and up to 60,000 calories per day, which results as an addictive "high" not unlike those experienced through drug usage, and a release from psychological stress. In bulimics, this high may be intensified by the act of purging. Some researchers have speculated there is an abnormality of endorphin metabolism in the brain of binge eaters that triggers the addictive process. This is inline with other theories of addiction that attribute it not to avoidance of withdrawal symptoms, but to a primary problem in the reward centers of the brain. Further, research has shown that those with eating disorders most often crave high carbohydrate “comfort foods” and use these during binges. The ingestion of these foods causes release of the neurotransmitter, serotonin. This could be another sign of neurobiological factors contributing to the addictive process. Abstinence from addictive food and food eating processes causes withdrawal symptoms in those with eating disorders. There may be higher levels of depression and anxiety due to the decreased levels of serotonin in the individual.[2]

There are complexities with the biology of compulsive eating that separate it from a pure substance abuse analogy. Food is a complex mixture of chemicals that can affect the body in multiple ways, which is magnified stomach-brain communication. In some ways, it may be much more difficult for compulsive overeaters to recover than addicts. There is an anecdotal saying among Overeaters Anonymous members that "when you are addicted to drugs you put the tiger in the cage to recover; when you are addicted to food you put the tiger in the cage, but take it out three times a day for a walk."[2]

The physical explanation of compulsive overeating may be attributed to an overeaters' increased tendency to secrete insulin at the sight and smell of food, though medical evidence supporting this is controversial.[3]

From http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsive_overeating#cite_note-WEINER1998-2
 
I'm a MAN,stand 5'9 and wiegh 230.I find offense to this post cuase of the fact that SOME PEEPS cann't get of there HI-Horse and except what this world is(NOT YOURS WITH SLIM-FAST AND SOYBARS:confused3 )

Oh my waist size----33"---oh talk about FAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dd352--I hope I didn't offend you (or anyone else for that matter).

I was trying to get twilight to see the daylight. ;)

This post will probably be closed soon just because someone innocently was trying to find out before they spent lots of money on a vacation whether they could fit in really cool rides. Go figure.
 
What's sad is that people let themselves go or give up or don't try hard enough, then those people look at people like myself as the enemy. I'm horrible for not being empathetic to the situation in your eyes. Whatever, don't really care. All i know is I will be damned if i ever get that big. I respect my body, and my image too much to get that way. No matter how you want to twist it, the OP should try and lose weight before you goes on vacation.

BTW Wikipedia is the least credible sourced out there.
 
What's sad is that people let themselves go or give up or don't try hard enough, then those people look at people like myself as the enemy. I'm horrible for not being empathetic to the situation in your eyes. Whatever, don't really care. All i know is I will be damned if i ever get that big. I respect my body, and my image too much to get that way. No matter how you want to twist it, the OP should try and lose weight before you goes on vacation.

BTW Wikipedia is the least credible sourced out there.

When you are in your 20's as you are and have no kids as you do. It is easy to say how to lose weight or to see overweight people as failures.

I was in your shoes and had the same attitude about overweight people when I was young--then life and metabolism happens. Our family adheres to a diabetic diet so that hereditary diabetes will not strike. Alcohol occasionally-1-2x a month for me--fruits veggies, walking (not strolling) 1-2 miles a day. And now trying to beat our teens at athletics and yet, do we look like we came out of an ad?:laughing:

What you have written has been inflammatory to overweight people and it just needs to be toned down. You have your opinions, please don't keep posting them because this is an argument that doesn't need repeating.

This is most people's happy place--please do not make it so confrontational. The original poster just wanted info--not slammed for their problem.
 
I try not to get into a discussion about weight and weight loss, mostly because it is pretty much impossible for some people to understand how our bodies are designed to hold onto every single pound we gain and give them up grudgingly if at all. I suggest that anyone who is interested read Gina Kolata's book: "Rethinking Thin" where she explains why diets don't work in the longterm.

And as a person who never ate as much as my slim husband but out-weighed him by about 100 pounds, I know from experience that some people win the genetic crapshoot (and then believe that they are somehow better than others)(sigh) and some people lose. When I started a new medication that wasn't for weight loss, I lost 100 pounds in about 6 months from doing nothing. My metabolism sped up and now I weigh less than my spouse (and we are the same height). :) But I didn't lose weight because I dieted (which had never worked in the past), but because of an unexpected side effect of a medication. I still ate and eat the same amount I always did and weigh considerably less.

If it was as simple as eat less and exercise more then there wouldn't be any fat people in the world. Quite obviously, it is not.

And that is what I have to say on this topic. :)
 
dd352--I hope I didn't offend you (or anyone else for that matter).

I was trying to get twilight to see the daylight. ;)

This post will probably be closed soon just because someone innocently was trying to find out before they spent lots of money on a vacation whether they could fit in really cool rides. Go figure.


I took no offense to it:thumbsup2 .I was doing the samething.But twilight wonn't listen!!!:sad2:

My DW best friend wieghs close too 300lbs.Is she a couch potatoe no.She is a nurse in her 40's that outworks the 20somethings'.We goto BG Tampa with her and I'm ready to take break long before she is even thinking about it:confused3

Some people carry thier weight diffrent!!!!!!!!!!!
 
For someone to listen, one's mind would have to be open to new ideas or concepts. What she believes is of little consequence as most here are open minded. It's unfortunate, however, that there are people who feel they need to share hurtful, negative opinions without boning up on facts. You are always entitled to an opinion...but you don't always have to share it.
 
This forum deals with Universal Studios and is not the place for a discussion on why people are overweight. It is definitely not the place for judging overweight people. There is a forum for dieting and encouragement called the W.I.S.H. board here: http://disboards.com/forumdisplay.php?f=59 But once again, it is also not forum for debating.

I am closing this thread and want to thank those of you who showed patience and restraint in your replies.
 
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