Okay...I have a dilemma and need some help. You KNOW it's serious, because it's not in pink!
Okay, so it isn't THAT serious. But....our Spring Break is in March, the week of the 20th. Jordan has her National cheer competition in Anaheim. Months ago, her friend's parents had wanted to take Jordan with them on a cruise for spring break, but they found out that the competition wouldn't be over on Sunday, early enough to get to the port. So they told me that they were going to stay at
Disneyland (like we are) and asked if Jordan could sleep in their room with Amber, and join us during the day.
Jay isn't going with us, he's missed too much work. So Jared and I are going to fly over for the comp, stay until Thursday, and then fly back...with Jordan.
I bought park tickets for the 3 of us, and I used a voucher at the airport, which is non-refundable, for Jordan's return flight.
And, we made plans to meet up with some friends of ours, who we had dinner with on our first
Disney cruise (we also have spent a few Christmases at D-Land with them, haven't seen them in a year, and miss them!). They have two daughters about Jordan's age, a little older, but they all get along great.
NOW.....Amber's family has decided NOT to stay at Disneyland, but to drive to Oklahoma to visit all of their relatives. Jordan is at the stage where half of her wants to go where Amber goes, no matter what. But, she also wants to see our friends and go to Disneyland. But, she is just enough of a "follower" to do whatever Amber wants her to do......so she's saying she wants to go with them. I personally think it will be darn boring.
And....even though I have taken the girls (my two) on "girls only" trips, I've never taken Jared anywhere just the two of us. Part of me thinks I should, that it might be nice to do something, just the two of us. The other part says that it wouldn't be as much fun alone. Not to mention the money I'd be out.
I did tell Amber's mom that I had already paid, and I would lose money.....kind of tip-toeing around saying "No"....but all she said was "Well, find out if you'll lose money, and let me know what you decide".
Another thing that bugs me is them making and changing plans at the last minute. It surprised me that they wanted to cruise in March...but hadn't reserved it! Is this just our "Disney Obsessive Planning" that makes me think that 2 months isn't enough time to plan?
I can't even figure out what's bothering me the most.
The money.....
Jordan wanting to go with her friend and not us......
The Mom....for not taking my answer of "no" the first time.......
The fear of being bored to tears with my son......
Oh, and another thing....Amber is coming with us on this cruise...I've already paid for her to go. I'm afraid that if I make her Mom mad, she may not let Amber come with us. Which wouldn't break my heart, but I would be out even MORE money!
HELP!
Sorry this is so long.