Thanks for asking about my Mom!

She is getting stronger each day but she started chemo so we are waiting for all heck to break loose. She got an injection of Neulasta this afternoon and this is the one that really gives her tremendous pain. I've been running over there in the morning and helping her get ready for the day and do her Physical Therapy exercises and anything else she needs to do. With all there is to do for her I have a sneaking suspicion that I am also doing my own P.T. along side with her work out.
My dad continues to be a challenge. That's all I'm going to say about him. It's no sense having me get aggravated over a person I can't get through to. I am just moving forward with what I need to do for her and I'm trying to not let any of his dysfunction get in the way. I'm starting to realize that the best care I can provide, is to come over, do what I can do for her and most importantly listen to her when she voices her concerns about her future. That psychological help is just as important as anything physical. Having recently been ill, I know that when you don't feel good it seems like you will never get better again. My Mom is going to have to live with the small victories and come to terms with the fact that she is on a roller coaster with some ups and a lot more downs. This is really hard to take so we don't concentrate on that. I try to get her to focus on the small victories and improvements and I tell her that it's ok to have a bad day too. I tell her that this is a marathon and not a sprint and that she has to be patient and just see how she will do. We really
are living day to day, moment to moment and I know it's a tremendous comfort for her to see me by her side and for her to know that I care.
So that's where we are today. We can't worry about tomorrow because it hasn't happened yet. We just have to take it one day at a time.
Thanks to everybody who is keeping her in your thoughts and prayers
~NM