Ok, the REAL reason I logged on just now (but was distracted by all the other posts)....The director called me back. Opening night is safe. She wants Nick there. I asked, and YES, it IS because of the reviewers.
There seems to be a problem that she's encountering that she says she has NEVER encountered in all of her years directing plays. She wanted to give me a heads up in case she asks me to do something---that I will know it's not b/c of us.
Apparently, yesterday, the other Christopher Robin mom gave her a "several page handwritten letter" giving her ideas on how to make the play better!! In it she gave hints, criticized the actors for their interpretations of the parts and generally just slammed EVERYTHING that EVERYONE (except her son) was doing!!! So.....needless to say, the director is none too pleased to have a mom of a double cast kid telling HER what to do!!! So, she wanted to let me know that she *may* be kicking the mom's out of the rehearsal room---and that she'd only do it to me so it didn't look like she was singling the other mom out. Also, depending on how things go these next couple of days, she may actually be firing the other Christopher Robin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So she wanted to give me a heads up that we may have to pick up more shows. Not a problem---I just only wish we could finish out the run of it---if it wasn't for this cruise!! I apologized to her for anything we've done that hasn't been productive but reminded her that we've never done this before and we're rather green. She reassured me that we were "doing it the right way."
So there you have it. Thanks all for the kind words of support. I worried for nothing. The mama bear in me was ready to tear off a couple of heads!! A special thanks to Stacey who calmed my fears and gave me the virtual

that I REALLY needed last night.
Ah, rehearsal should be fun today!
p.s. now I'm REALLY glad that I didn't approach the director and tell her that Eeyore was being played too "angry" and not "gloomy" enough! Whew!