Couldn't disagree with you more. I think the food is great, the crowds are part of going to a theme park, the FP+ and ADR system work great for us, and its as magical as ever.
Thats great! But people think and feel differently about all kinds of things.
I don't get why it's "dismissive" to tell someone not to go. If I felt like:
The magic is not meeting the money. We have drunks roaming Epcot, fights breaking out in parks with no one being held accountable, a disastrous FP+/ADR system, food that is lack luster, crowds that take heavily from the guest experience, and more. Aside from its size, Disney is on its way to becoming the next Six Flags.
...I would definitely not go!
Well, its not your business to tell people not to go. What other people do with their money is none of yours or anyone's business. I'm sorry that my cancelling a CP ADR (which we don't need anyway) upset you so bad. Thats my way of continuing to find value in going. When I feel prices have gone above what I want to pay (not what I am able to pay) then I will make adjustments. Its my money, that I work for, and I can do that. You cannot, sorry.
We all have to decide what to do w our money. If I didn't love our experiences at WDW and feel they were worth the cost, I wouldn't spend the money on them. So if the people above who said those things are still going to go, then obviously there are some positives that they're just not mentioning, which happen to outweigh those negatives and make the trip still worth it to them.
Our trip was paid for months ago and Im pretty sure it can't be refunded at this point. Also, I never said it wasn't worth going. I said I cancelled a $100 ADR to
now make it worth going 
If I ever do go to Disney again, I will do the same. I will only spend what I'm going to spend and thats that. The $3 a day didn't all of a sudden break me. Its the principle to me, which I will stand firm on, in addition to the other increases such as AP's which I don't even use. What they did to AP holders is robbery.
If you look at my signature I have quite a few trips under my belt, including a couple deluxe resort stays. We eat onsite every meal but breakfast, we do two MNSSHPs every trip, we do plenty of shopping. We buy anywhere from 7-10 day tickets. We don't just "pop in and out". And we pay to park. We spend plenty of money every trip. I just like getting more bang for my buck and Disney is slowly taking that away.
Sometimes, people who have never had to "do without" or set a "budget" have no concept that there is actually a different way of life for the average person. You can't blame them. Their way of life is all they know. Its inconceivable to them that some people save years to go to Disney and because of their entitlements, they feel they also have the authority to tell other people how to spend their money, judge them for any discrepancy in actions if they differ from their own, or even try to appear as if Disney is a "luxury" only for the rich. They really do live in a bubble.
Oh stop...Potato Potaaaato
Really? My 14 year old was saying that when he was 12. It was the "cool" thing for the kids to say. Kids. Yes, kids. Not adults.