donac said:
I heard a quote but I don't know who said it but it helps me when I think about being 50.
40 is the old age of youth but 50 is the youth of old age.
I love that! I am 45, but 50 doesn't seem all that far away. I am just glad that Oprah has gone before me because she makes it look so good. I see pictures of her 20 years ago and now, and she looks so much better now. She is beautiful (of course she is rich and can pay for the best stylist....but still, it gives me hope).
Linda, 2006 is going to be a great year for you! I know right now it is hard. This is such a tough time of year. DH just brought home one of those big tins of popcorn (with the butter, caramel, and cheese popcorns) that someone at the office gave him. No matter how hard you try, there is always something popping up at this time to get in your way of dieting.
Hang in there! Once New Year's day is over things will get easier. It won't ever be easy, but it will be easier. Once the holidays are over, give yourself some time and come up with a plan. Something that can work for you. My aunt starts out with Slim Fast every New Year. I don't like it, and it doesn't work for me, but it does some some people.
Last year, what I did, was come up with a food plan to get me through January (taking one month at a time).
I decided on the 1200 calorie a day diet. So I broke up my calories like this:
Breakfast: 200 calories
Lunch: 300 Calories
Afternoon snack: 100 Calories
Dinner: 500 calories
Evening Snack: 100 Calories
Then to make it easier I bought:
100 calories snack bags (I like the Ritz Mix and the Chocolate Chip cookies).
Instant Oatmeal packages (and I used 1% milk with it)
Minute Maid Light Raspberry Drink (I used instead of juice for breakfast)
300-350 calories or less frozen dinners for lunch
Then for dinner I would have whatever I made for for the family, but I would measure it out and look up the calories and keep it to 500 calories (I would also use a salad plate instead of a dinner plate for my food....then my plate didn't look empty and it made it harder to put extra on it---I am still using a salad plate for dinner now even though I am at goal. It is just a better size for the amount of food I should eat).
This worked for me, and through the year I kept to this basic plan, but I have made changes. You can't eat the same thing for a year

, but I did this all through January and then I changed my lunch to 1/4 of a frozen Totino's pizza each day (I broke it a part before baking it and would just use the toaster oven and baked a piece of pizza each day for lunch and had hot peppers to put on it). Then later I got those 2% cheese sticks (100 calories each) and crackers for lunch.
But to start out, don't think past January. I started the Lost 5 For January and did that challenge each month. I ONLY thought about those 5 pounds. I was too overwhelmed to think about all the weight I really had to lose. It made it more fun to be part of the challenge.
So anyway.......that is my advice. Start to get serious on January 2nd. Take one month at a time and set a reasonable goal (and 5 pounds is reasonable). Come up with an eating plan that will take you through the day (don't use up your calories or points (if you are on Weight Watchers) early in the day because at the end of the day you will be hungry--same some of your food for later on).
Well, time to go clean up the kitchen. DD is still sick today, so both kids are home and that makes the house even messier! Even with one sick (the other DD seems to like to 'make' food for the sick DD, but when she 'makes' food she also 'makes' a mess

, but at least she is trying to help her sister).
Debra