If my child went in for a T&A and came out dead, I have to tell you that I would launch an investigation like one has never seen before to get to the bottom of it all. If I concluded through that investigation that the hospital was even slightly negligent, I would sue them to ends of the earth and wouldn't settle for anything. I am NOT saying the hospital is negligent. But when a child dies after fairly routine surgery, there needs to be a serious investigation. And I know some are saying this wasn't a routine surgery. I'm sorry, but hospitals operate on overweight people every single day of the year and they don't die. My son had a T&A and they took a large amount of extra tissue. While it might not be routine in a tonsillectomy, it certainly isn't rare. There are surgeries performed daily that are a hundred times more complicated than this surgery and the patient doesn't die. Again, I am not saying the hospital did anything wrong. This may have simply been one of those things, but as the parent of a child who died during surgery, you better believe I wouldn't let this one drop. Would any of you? The thing is, I doubt there is a single person out there would let this drop if it was their child, but people hate this family so much right now, that they are automatically excusing the hospital. If this family had reacted like most of us say we would have on this thread (child is declared brain dead, parents remove life support, child passes and is buried) and then the family started an investigation, I can't imagine a single person wouldn't back them up. An investigation doesn't mean negligence will be found, but the family certainly has a right to find out why their 13 y/o is gone. Unfortunately, this has turned into a ginormous cluster **** and the family has lost support. That is really sad because it isn't common for a kid to die after tonsil surgery, but because of the circus surrounding this case, we will likely never find out what really happened.