MAGICFOR2 said:I'm sorry ladies and gentlemen, but it doesn't get any better. I was the room mom, team mom, etc. - all the way up to Sr. party mom in charge of putting together the grad night to keep them off the streets. Huge function with lots of fund raising - always got the same handful of parents all through school. DH was always the coach, etc.
We got the, "I'm busy, I work, I have kids," as if the rest of us didn't???You can be proud that you care enough about your kids to be there for all of them - don't burn out
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We have the opposite problem here...we have too many parents, which great but very unusual. I live in area in California that is inland and up until about 2001 it was on the affordable side and many people moved here from the more expensive Orange and San Diego counties so that one of the parents was able to stay home. And we also have a LOT of firefighters and police officers here. When I first stayed home we lived in OC and I'd go the mall and it would be dead, relatively speaking. When we first moved here which was before my oldest was in school, I couldn't understand WHY I'd go to Target during the day and see a ton of people, particularly men with their kids. Then a firefighter neighbor explained it was because of all the firefighters and police officers that live here and their schedules allow them to be home sometimes during the week, during the day.
Once Ryan started school I saw the same thing at school, the campus is brimming with parents. For K-3 there are only 20 kids in the class and it's not unusual to have 10-15 parents volunteer to help out for every thing! I was room mom last year and sometimes I found it annoying because they all had their "forceful" opinions but after hearing what you all have said, I'm going to change my opinion and be more grateful.
It interesting to see how different things can be from one place to another.
Lisa W.