We loved our GS leader years. Of course, it was a family affair with DrHug being my co-leader, along with another mom so there were 3 of us. We learned very early on not to count on ALL the parents to participate, but we did develop a core group of parents that helped us with every event. Having a man involved really encouraged other dads to join in also. Anyway, the note said how much she loved us and appreciated all we did for her and her sister and that we were family to them. DrHug said

"we didn't do anything more for them than the other girls", and I told him that getting a smile and a "we are SO glad to see you" each week obviously meant alot to them.

We still have the note and I still cry when I read it. Those two girls whose lives we touched make all the frustration with unhelpful parents worth it. You just never know who is watching you, needing you, and what a difference you can make. So, all of that to say....You can and will enjoy being a leader of whatever group your kids get involved in if you set your expectations for the kids very high and for the parents very low.