FORGET ABOUT GETTING UP AT 3AM!!!!!! Sounds like your DD already has her mind made up. I'm not much of a sports person, but if she can be in the beginning of the game perhaps she could leave early. Any chance of her skipping the game at all. Mention that you had to change your days, and/or flights.
MY DD is missing the game! DD and Susan's DD go to the same school, but my DD is a grade ahead. They try out tonight. Don't know if she will be Varisity or JV, (JV last year) but regardless we are leaving on Thursday.

