I need to say something here. And as I am not the most diplomatic person I know, I probably will ruffle a few feathers. I'm trying hard to find the best way to express how I'm feeling. Please be patient if it doesn't come out in the spirit in which it's intended.
I've been reading the posts, and I've been reading a recent List (not the MOST recent). Eric has added great information as to which Cruisetoberfest (or Cruisears) everyone has participated in.
I see many 1's and 1,2's. This tells me that there are Cruisetoberfesters that did not participate in a cruise after their initial cruise. (I'm not talking about the ones that joined a subsequent Cruisetoberfest.) So, there are those not joining us this time--so next year, their listing will show 1,2,3,5.
Within the posts, although the disappointment is understandable, or even expected...I'm hearing a tone of almost anger. (I'm guilty of it myself, so I've edited my last post.) I agree with Avé that the decision to vacation has many variables, and we need to respect when someone chooses to change his/her plans.
There's another sense that I'm getting, and I can't quite find the word to describe it. It's the words like "deserters", "won't be a Cruisetoberfest", or even "sailing with friends is more important". Does anyone else hear what I'm hearing?
Understanding that neither trip will "be the same", those that are sailing the Southern Caribbean (and any other dates) are going to have a great time! Those that are sailing 10/14 are going to have a great time! Each side will miss the other.
I've said my peace. Have a great weekend! And I hope I haven't angered anyone--that isn't my intent at all.