Millie12591
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At 83 and with pain for 40+ years, no, I don't think she will recover. She had a short period pain-free after her ovarian cancer surgery two years ago. She was so excited -- she really thought the growths had been the cause of the pain. And then it came back with a vengeance. I believe the post-surgical pain med they gave her in the hospital relieved her pain. Unfortunately, she has not been able to find a doctor who will prescribe that med for her, they say it is strictly for post-surgery use. I wish just one would try it. If it doesn't work, then fine, at least now we know. She is looking into ablation now to see if that is a possibility -- but why didn't a doctor tell her about this long ago? Why did the doctor treating her for her broken arm (she fell a few weeks ago) bring it up when her pain management doctors have never said a word about it? Yes, I want her to see new doctors. When the one she sees now told her he would have to research ablation, um No, he should already know about it. It is not all that new. Ok, that was way more of an answer than you wanted.
No, no! I wanted to hear about it, and I'm so glad you shared. I'll certainly be praying for your mom and hoping that they will find something that will bring relief to her. I know what you mean by frustration with doctors, and yes you are right do NOT allow the doctor who said he'd study up on the procedure to do it, this procedure has been around long enough that there are plenty of doctors out there to do it and know what the heck they are doing.
Speaking of frustration, I just found out today that one of my mom's doctors pretty much blew her off when she started speaking of her pain waaay back about this time last year, that's when all the tumors and fractures had actually started (unbeknownst to us), it makes me so hoppin mad to find out they could have been doing more for her waaaaay back then. The doctor she spoke with about her pain was blowing it off to wait until she was done with radiation that he was giving her and then she'd be back with her other doctor and that doctor could handle it from there.


Hi Camille! Thinking of you and your mom today. I hope things are starting to fall back into some sense of balance and sanity. (What's normal right?) Just wanted you to know that although I get so busy with life and yes, even Dis, I want you to know that you have a special place in my heart.
You really know how to bring a girl to tears.![]()
In a good way though.
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I wish I could report things are back to normal (what is normal-is right!) It looks like weekly visits are in order and that won't include all the testing they will be doing in between. Looks like my life will be on hold for a while.
Your TR has certainly become a place of hope and encouragement to others as well... WAY TO GO MONICA!!!! I celebrate your success with you!! Keep up the amazing work! It is paying off.![]()
