Well - I have learned my first lesson as a BUYER.. Always, always, ALWAYS check feedback before bidding on anything..
I made a silly assumption that because the seller involved was a Power Seller there wouldn't be any problems.. Boy - was I ever wrong! I paid for the item on Dec. 1st and still haven't received it so I sent a polite email asking when it was shipped and if they could track it through the DC#.. (It's a Christmas gift..)
The first response was very "vague" - something along the lines of they "usually" ship within a "week" of receiving payment "more or less" - and no mention of the DC.. So I emailed again to ask if they could track it via the DC and received a very crude response of "DON'T USE DC - TOLD YOU IT WAS SHIPPED!!" - all in caps..
I waited a few more days and then emailed again to let them know the item still hadn't arrived.. This time I was told (all in caps) to "STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT. I SAID IT WAS MAILED. IF YOU DON"T GET IT WE REFUND OR REPLACE!! CHECK MY FEEDBACK!!!!" That really kind of ticked me off, so I did in fact check the FB and there were
98 negatives and umpteen neutrals - all in regards to either extremely slow shipping (up to 2 months) or never shipping the item at all!! And in the area where the seller could leave a comment??? Oh my gosh!!!! It was AWFUL !! Things like "STUPID NEW USER CAN'T READ" - "WOULD YOU LIKE A TIP TOO?" - "MAIL IS RESPONSIBLE, NOT ME!!", etc........ Very, very, very arrogant and rude..
Next thing I know I receive a notice that this buyer has requested my contact info.. So I emailed him to ask why and told him I could have saved him the trouble if he had just asked for that info in his last email. He then responds (in caps again) "I'M TRYING TO CALL YOU - GET OFF LINE!!!!!" He also threatened me in terms of feedback (which I hadn't even mentioned).. Said, "LEAVE NEGATIVE FEEDBACK AND I WILL RESPOND IN KIND!!"
Well let me tell you, I have NO intentions of talking to this person as he is clearly a
nut case.. Now the question is - if I don't receive the item in a couple of days, do I request the refund from him (I'm not interested in yet another UNTRACKABLE replacement) or do I go through Paypals "buyer complaint" process? It's not a lot of money, but quite frankly I am very angry with his nasty attitude towards his customers and would love to see him "squirm" while dealing with Paypal..
Lesson learned...
ALWAYS check feedback before bidding regardless of "power" status!!! 