We just ate at both and I would say Palio also. The stolling violinist is wonderful, the atmosphere is great, great wines, nice selections (we are both Italian and very picky about Italian food), etc.
The Yachtsman was nice as well, great atmosphere, and when I told the server it was our 6th wedding anniversary, she gave me a rose and us some complimentary cookies for dessert with "Happy Anniversay" written on the plate in chocolate. That said, I think I paid about $35 for an extremely tough and fatty steak (cooked meduim rare, so it wasn't the temp. that caused it). My husband had the same problem with his. We are steak people and were disappointed in the quality for the money. But if you rarely eat or go out for steak, you will probably love it.
But I still remain partial to Palio. Enjoy no matter where you choose!