Hi all - I am the one who cancelled on Marcia

I am a DVC owner, but we didn't have enough points, so I looked to the DIS for help.
My Dsis and I were surprising my Dad with a 65th birthday getaway for a few days to see the Christmas decorations and renting points was the way to go since we all love our DVC resorts!
Now Dad has knee surgery scheduled for the first day of our trip, and we had to let him in on the surprise. Due to the surgeon's schedule and my sister's work schedule, we are unable to change dates, and unsure of when he will be well enough to travel. Thus, the reason for my sad news
The OP and I had no written agreement - I never imagined I would have to cancel. She is going to try and rent the points to someone else - if worse comes to worse and for some reason she is stuck with the points, I will probably just go on a solo trip rather than lose the deposit. For our tight budget's sake, I would rather wait and re-schedule for my Dad and sister. The OP has been nothing but gracious and kind (as most here on the DIS are)
Just thought I'd pipe in with an explanation for all - hope you don't mind Marcia