Okay...I'm probably going to give you WAY more information than you asked for, but this will cover it all!
You can find budget books in the stores and things but I customize mine for my own personal spending categories using spreadsheets on Excel.
I do 3 pages per month. I could input the information into Excel but I prefer to print the sheets and handwrite.
I have an overview page. On this page I list the income, the categories, and the total in/out for the month. I have four columns for each category: projected, actual, difference (between my estimate and the reality), and the % of the total income for that month that each category is. I do NOT do all the columns each month, but every once in a while I look at the % of income to get an idea ...i.e. my rent is usually around 40% of my take-home pay.
(The empty squares are for stickers for the categories I stay below budget in...stupid but it's a little incentive that actually helps

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I have a page for listing expenses. Each category has 5 columns: date, location (where I spent the money), format (cash/debit/cc...this helps me cross check statements at the end of the month, also if I'm returning something and I know what cc it's on I can do receipt lookup at some stores), amount spent, and a balance (I add up so at the end of the month I'm not spending 2 hours adding numbers). The totals for each category go on the overview page at the end of the month.
I have a page for income where I estimate hourly wages (like I mentioned earlier...hours worked x pay per hour x .75 (to account for deductions). I also have an "other" area where I put money I find or was given. I list all the pay that DH and I make on this page, then the totals go on the overview page at the end of the month.
Categories: (Bold are the ones I use, Italics are some other ideas)
Rent
ConEd (utilities)
TMobile (my cell phone)
Verizon (my DH cell phone)
CableVision (cable, internet, land phone)
Compassion (we sponsor kids)
World Vision (we sponsor kids)
Food - I used to break down into "
eating out" (and that included the soda/snack machines/Starbucks/etc) and "
supermarket" but I've combined the two so they come out of one fund at this point. I broke it down earlier to see where the money is going, now that I know, one category is easier for me.
Transportation - We do not have a car. My unlimited bus pass is paid for through paycheck deductions, but sometimes we rent a car, take a cab, or my DH buys a Metrocard (bus pass). This goes in that category. When I had a car, I had subcategories of
gas, maintenance, insurance, and car payments.
Clothes - self explanatory
Gifts - holidays, birthday, etc
Health - this is copays, prescriptions, over the counter meds, etc - if you have a flex spending plan with work, breaking it down like this can help you at the end of the year (I think?)
Laundry - I don't have a washer/dryer, so we haul our laundry to the laundry mat and use quarters. I suppose laundry soap could be in this category too but I leave that for Misc
Work - I'm a teacher and find myself buying stuff for work a lot
School - I just finished my masters but this was a HUGE budget category for awhile. I included tuition and text books in this category.
Entertainment - movies, plays, shows, concerts, etc
Travel - anything associated with a vacation goes here
Books
Hobbies
Electronics
Miscellaneous - I've named it this because I don't know what else to name it. It just means household supplies like laundry soap, cleaning supplies, etc.
At first I found it easier to have more categories in order to track where money was going (leaking). Now, I find it easier to have more broad categories because it's less work. If you shop at
Walmart or Target or those "all in one" stores, you can separate the stuff in your cart into your categories and do separate transactions when you check out.