Would you marry your spouse again?

[poohandwendy]

ARRRGGG! Why do people have to overanalyse everything! I am aware that in a heartbeat is an expression, not an exact measure of time. Good Grief!

I'm not used to this, I usually have the impression people don't even read my posts, much less pick each word apart over and over and over.

LOL, at least you know you aren't invisible...

 

[helenabear]

LOL, at least you know you aren't invisible...

Good point

I read your posts and I know I am not picking on you, just going to explain. I have thought about it before. We had rough spots in our marriage (one huge one being after my DH was unexpectedly laid off... company was hit was major financial issues and eventually closed all together) and we've had some great spots. I hardly remember the bad at this point. I know I am happier with him and he has helped me grow positively. I would take any bad with him I have gone through for the good he brings. When you notice all the good and hardly the bad, I think it is an easy answer for some.

I also believe that marriage is just as much about a strong commitment as it is love. I am utterly committed to him. I would do anything w/in my power to stay with him. We seem to have a good balance of interdependence and independence and that makes our commitment to each other that much easier/stronger.

I married for life here... and so it is an easy answer for me. I am sure others who answered feel similarly.

I have thought about it before, and it never takes long for me to answer. Granted marriage in general is not for everyone, and not all marriages are great. I truthfully was also shocked to see less people questioning. I figured that was more normal to question it greater than to just answer.

 

[shep]

Of course, I don't know if I could find anyone better to & for me...

Now I wonder what Amanda would say..

 

[poohandwendy]

Of course, I don't know if I could find anyone better to & for me...

Now I wonder what Amanda would say..

She is probably still thinking...give her a minute. jk

 

[Ride Junkie]

While many of these responses gave me the warm fuzzies, some of them made me feel sad for the poster. But I admire their honesty. (sending you guys some pixie dust)

I would TOTALLY marry my DH again. Here's a guy who proposed to me at Disneyland and took me to WDW for our honeymoon...that's a keeper!

 

[poohandwendy]

Good point

I read your posts and I know I am not picking on you, just going to explain. I have thought about it before. We had rough spots in our marriage (one huge one being after my DH was unexpectedly laid off... company was hit was major financial issues and eventually closed all together) and we've had some great spots. I hardly remember the bad at this point. I know I am happier with him and he has helped me grow positively. I would take any bad with him I have gone through for the good he brings. When you notice all the good and hardly the bad, I think it is an easy answer for some.

I also believe that marriage is just as much about a strong commitment as it is love. I am utterly committed to him. I would do anything w/in my power to stay with him. We seem to have a good balance of interdependence and independence and that makes our commitment to each other that much easier/stronger.

I married for life here... and so it is an easy answer for me. I am sure others who answered feel similarly.

I have thought about it before, and it never takes long for me to answer. Granted marriage in general is not for everyone, and not all marriages are great. I truthfully was also shocked to see less people questioning. I figured that was more normal to question it greater than to just answer.

I just figured people already have answered that in their hearts, so it's easy to come up with your response.

 

[Jennasis]

YUP YUP YUP!

I would marry DH again without a moment's hesitation. Of course we've only been married for a shade over a year, but we've been living together for a bit over 6 years, so I would say the rose-colored glasses are long gone. I love him to pieces and would marry him again without question.

 

[PrincessKitty1]

YES!! We've been together 20 years, married for 10.

My first husband...HECK NO.

 

[traceyjohnson]

well married 8 years and had a lucky escape before i met my dh, was engaged to a nutter, serious head job got out of that and won my wonderfull hubby. love him more every day we finish each others sentences which really annoys other people LOL we also laugh at the same jokes ( most of them old or recycled) and we still click in the bedroom

 

[TLHB70]

Yes, definitely
DH is my best friend. I have grown because of him and with him through our years together. We have been together 16 years, and we celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary next weekend. I love him more and more each day. On our wedding day I could not have imagined loving him more, but today I do. He is a precious gift from God. I am so thankful for him. I cherish him, our marriage, and our family.

 

[momof3littlelilos]

Yes...
We met 22 years ago when we were still teenagers...and he was my first love. We split up and did other things; we got back together 7 years ago, and were married 2 1/2 years ago. It's sometimes rocky, 'cause we're both difficult people, but he's the one person I never have to explain myself to. He's a great dad. He still makes my heart go pitter-pat.
I wish we'd had a nicer wedding, someday I'd like to have a "real" wedding with our girls as bridesmaids, and a gown and reception... But I wouldn't trade my husband.