Ronald Duck said:
The real reason we sprung for the AP this year, though, was that we had our hearts set on a pre-Christmas stay at the Poly with kids and grandkids, and now with the meagre discounts it's obvious we can't swing it financially. There are a lot of people in our family whose bubbles were burst yesterday
I'm sorry to say, but this was your own fault. There are a lot of people in this thread who seem a bit confused as to why Disney offers an AP, or the expectations that come with one. You need to read the benefits guide very carefully.
The AP is meant as admission media to the parks for a year, not an automatic discount card. If you actually read the literature, it says discounts
MAY be offered in
LIMITED QUANITIES for
SOME dates, not "go ahead and schedule a vacation you cannot afford and we'll reward you by giving it to you cheap" card.
The truth of the matter is that you should book the vacation you can afford, and Disney is under no obligation to give any discounts. They really don't need to because attendance is so good. Businesses give discounts to lure in customers, not to reward. Even "rewards" programs are geared this way, even if you are earning something, like on a Disney visa, to make you use your card when you wouldn't necessarily just for the lure of a reward.
When it comes to discounts, buying an AP hoping for them (especially for such a choice resort and dates) is gambling, plain and simple. You might as well play the stock market. Just because business last year dictated they gave one, does not mean it will happen again, and Disney is under absolutely no obligation to do so.
I'm not saying this to be mean, but I just was struck with the emoti-cons you used and your statement about a lot of burst bubbles in your family. You gambled, and lost. If you'd gone to Vegas and lost it on blackjack it's the same thing - not some tradgedy that has befallen your family. Next time, don't gamble with your families vacation.
All that said, I am an AP holder, and yes, I go more when there are more discounts. But, unlike it seems a lot of people in this thread, I realize that an AP is
ADMISSION MEDIA, not a discount card. If you won't get the value out of admission, or on an already released code (i.e. you buy an AP today so you can use the code that is already out for this fall), do not buy it unless you can afford to not get a discount. When they come, it's a nice surprise, not something you have to explain to the kids why you promised you could stay somewhere you can't really pay for.
It's a hard lesson you have learned, and again, I'm sorry for being so blunt, but hopefully your experience can help another family avoid the same mistake.
In spite of everything, I'm sure you will still have a wonderful time at the World even if you have to get a resort that is more within your budget.
NED