Well put! I don't know what a "DDP style of hotel is" but oh well. The DDP gives people the chance to get that dining plan and save lots of money. And if DDP hotels are being refered to as values (because this other person would rather stay at a deluxe) than thats wrong. Some people stay at a value because it is the most affordable way to go on vacation. I just finished my first year of college and my DBF just finished his second. Being a college student takes up a lot of time so we don't work full time making as much money a year as others. We can still go on vacation and afford it, and we enjoy our time. Besides, why pay all of that extra money when you are out at the parks the entire day? For us that would be a waste of money. I think some people need to realize that not everyone is wealthy and they do what they have to to go on vacation, even if that means staying at a value.
And I think your views represent the great majority.
As far as I am concerned, the "elite" who tend to look down upon people staying at value resorts or those who sign up for the DDP, should take their vacation dollars elsewhere. Go elsewhere and spend your money at some exclusive resort in the Caribbean where you can be with people of your perceived wealth and stature and leave WDW to the regular folks.