There are ways to make DVC more affordable:
We originally purchased a 50 point contract via resale for $78/pt. We wanted to get our feet wet. Well, before the ink was dry we added on 150 points during a promotion Disney was having: $83 and change a point.
My initial buy in was $16,500 for 200 points. Due to timing I also received some extra points without dues. So over the last 3 years I paid $2400 in maintenence fees. This was off set by renting points out (220 @$11point =$2420 back). So $18,900 in costs minus 2420 = $16,480 total outlay.
To further muddy the waters

We decided to sell a one of our 50 point contracts two months ago. Total $ back after commision paid $4000.
I am out $12,480 but have 150 points and have enjoyed:
5 nights at Villas at Wilderness Lodge in a 2br
2 nights at Saratoga Springs in a 1br
6 nights at Old Key West in a 2br
and coming up in August:
5 nights at Saratoga Springs in a 2br.
Being a family of 5 is hard. You really require a 2 br. We decided the weekend point requirements were punitively high (or the weeknights a bargain depending on how you look at it

) so we decreased our holdings and we are spending 2 nights at the Fort Wilderness Cabins before moving to Saratoga Springs.
Since we get discounts on AP's (that perk saves us $500

) we will return to Orlando in March for spring break...and we will rent a villa at Windsor Hills.
So the moral of this story is...there are ways to get the system to work for you if you put in some effort. If you plan on staying in only studios or 1brs and avoid the weekends you can buy a small resale contract and make out like a bandit!