kmores
Hoping for a black and gold Superbowl! GEAUX SAINT
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I'm with you on this one, Tiger926.
You said you were at a wedding. There is certainly a minumum level of dress expected at a wedding. Would people think it would be appropriate to wear anything they feel like at a wedding? I hope not!
again, this may be purely regional, as I live in the south. there is a couple that got married in hunting gear. the bride's dress and bridesmaids dresses were all made out of it. and we own a DJ company and do weddings and parties often. I guess I am not as bothered by what people wear. however, I can tell you - based on the venue and the location (especially where the people are from), you can get everything from the expected formal/cocktail attire to stuff that makes you wonder if they realize the "rules". I think some people are just clueless, whereas others don't care about the rules.
I myself have found this an eye opener as a forum. I didn't realize "Signature" meant another level of whatever. I have looked at the menus and descriptions of the dining experiences and got really excited about booking these restaurants and eventually getting to try the food. I am most likely one of those who would cluelessly go to one of these restaurants and probably not be "accepted" or would be treated rudely because I wasn't dressed "properly". I don't think I would be worried about what the others were wearing because I would be so excited to be there. My family is one of those more "demonstrative" families - we usually are somewhat loud, although not intentionally.
I am spending very hard earned cash to go to Disney and these restaurants. guess my money isn't good enough is the message I am getting. Maybe I should go and forget about going to these "signature" restaurants. Sorry, but really sounds like a lot of elitism to me. Since I don't have the Rolex watch and platinum card, guess my presence would be embarrassing to others. well, glad to know now instead of ultimately making a fool of myself and not realizing I am ruining other diners' experiences. so much for Disney magic. you go to get away from the stark realities of the world...to be treated well no matter what your status. well, at least the CM aren't rude. which is what I thought manners was all about?