If this person truely is a Front Desk manager, I believe their days will be limited with this attitude, what goes around comes around.
We love being members, we have many friends who are CMs and not one has ever told this account to me, and they tell me alot.
I would just take as it as Internet chit chat and nothing more. What resort are you buying into, they are all great. We have stayed at all and like each one for different reasons.
I am sure there are
DVC members that are rude but many, many are not as witnessed on these forums.