Ok I would hate to think that I get worse service because I am DVC and therefore Cast Members are biasted against me. I don't think I deserve better service then any other person, but my experince being a WDW guest and non DVC member for 6 years before buying is WDW resorst give good services. When we stayed at YC in 2001 non DVC and we were upgraded to a water view for free and was allowed a late check out (that we asked very nicely for since it was 50 degrees the whole time we were there and the last day it finally hit over 60 and we wanted to swim for 45 min before we had to leave to go back to frezzing Michigan) I would hope that I wouldn't be denied the same serivces just and be tread worse then cash WDW guests. I understand no free upgrade, I understand fee for chaning room, I am preparied for it and I check my room over througly before I tip the cast member so IF a change is required (mostly smokey room) we can do so right away. I know about less mousekeeping serivces. I knew when I bought, I am preparid and have never found any of this to be a problem.
I must admit my hubby hates to tip someone when he can do it himself, so he would rather park the car then do Valet, and does. But when it comes to bell services they don't offer an alternitive. More then once we were moving rooms in the resort and wanted to use a cart, to move it ourselves. No go. Ok, we moved it oursevles, many trips. I wonder if we were a non dvc member if we would of been offered help. (we weren't even offered bell services.)
I am sorry you had some bad experinces with DVC members at your resort. I think most of the members here are very nice people who conduct themselves that way. I know I never yell at anyone, that just isn't who I am. However I do strongly belive if there is a problem you do have to allert managment to it, or they don't know to change it. However yelling or belittling insn't nessasry.
I know I have 40 years of DVC vacations ahead of me. I know I am not going to get the best room every time. I must admit it is more important to me when I take friends, I know I have been many times, but they haven't and really want it to be specail for them. You know how it is, when you take friends to your favorite restrant, you just love the place, but the one time you take them you have the worset serive? I would hate that to happen at DVC.
So to sum up my long windded post, I don't expect to be treated better, but don't think we should be second class either. (Like we got your money, deal with it, disney magic is for "paying guests".)