Imzadi
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Once again I guess I'm in the minority, but I'm not getting the Jef vibe that you all have. I'm not sure what it is about him. He seems SO young, but yet he's 27 so not as young as Chris (who DOESN'T seem young...). Is it the hair?I'm trying to think back on him, and I think it's because he seems so serious or awkward or... I don't know. Have we seen him just be himself? Does he know how to lighten up and have fun? That first kiss was just painful to watch for me, lol.
I want to be clear, when I say Jef is hip & cool, I mean I'm sure 20 somethings think he is. Not that I think he is.
Violetrose said what I suspected a few pages back:
I think you are absolutely right. My daughter is 23 and he is her favorite. I keep pushing Sean on her and she's like, "eww Mom he looks almost as old as Dad"!I guess Sean appeals to the cougars who like their men to look and act like men. My daughter and all her friends like guys like Jef, who is sort of quirky. I do like Jef though, he is a really nice guy. Don't see him with Emily at all though.
I cannot believe I'm about to post a Justin Beiber picture.



But, yes, Jef's young quality has a LOT to do with his hair. He's trying so hard to be cool. Even leaving off one "F" at the end of his name probably has to do with an image he wants.
Here is a picture of 27 year old Jef:

Here is 18 year old Justin Bieber who just graduated high school:

(No, I don't know who the kid is he is holding.)
Like I said earlier, I'm really impressed with Emily this season. The ONE negative thing that comes across to me with her is that she seems to be looking too hard for that PERFECT man - I'm afraid nobody is going to be good enough for her or meet her high expectations. And we all know there is no such thing as a perfect man (only perfect women...)![]()
I agree, she has been looking for the perfect man who will stand up to the image of her late fiance, Ricky.