Our Intimate wedding was nearly 2 years ago (our anniversary is Saturday) and all I can tell you is, it was completely perfect

It was exactly what we wanted - DH wanted a small wedding and I wanted a Disney wedding.
As for cost, things have gone up in the last 2 years, but for
everything it was under $7000. That included everything we paid for:
Disney location, floral, photography, limo, coordinator, etc. (officiant was included back then too)
Rings (not including my engagement ring)
Marriage license
Upgraded (custom) cake
Additional champagne and cider at cake cutting
Mickey & Minnie chocolate favors
Additional floral (wand for MOH, bouts, corsage, and my mom's remembrance rose)
Extra decor for site (I brought in my own stuff)
4 room nights at WL
My spa day the day before the wedding
Meals - brunch "good-bye/reception" for 12 and dinner for 2 in Italy Pavilion plus breakfasts and lunches at Disney
PI tickets
My gown (my parents paid for 1/2 of my gown), my tiara, jewelry, shoes, etc.
DH's tux, shoes, etc.
MOH's dress, shoes, and accessories
Our Caribbean Honeymoon Cruise (non-Disney)
Wedding announcements and postage (I made about 80 announcements)
Tips (officiant, limo driver, maids, etc.)
Souvenirs/scrapbook supplies
We already had Disney Passes (APs weren't offered back then) so there was no cost there. We got our invitations and stationary for free through a contact I had at work. My in-laws paid for the rehearsal dinner and for the hairdresser on the wedding day. I did my own make-up because whenever I've had it professionally done I've hated it.
All in all we could have had the same style ceremony and number of guests for less at a local hotel, but I wanted Disney, and it was a perfectly magical day
Best Wishes on getting your date!!