ITA! I think it's delusional to think that he had no part in her downfall. Surely, she was a grown woman, however grown men and women are manipulated every day by ppl. close to them, especially spouses-especially abusive spouses. I'd bet my money that he's a sorry pos, that was probably most def. a large part of why she turned out the way she did. It's sad that she didn't have the confidence, strength ect. to not allow him to do it, but he's still the pos that brought her down with him. It seems pretty clear, that he only and most likely has always only thought about himself. Just look at his actions from last night. Instead of being even a half-decent human being and rushing to be with his child and family when she died, he decided to go on stage, make money, and make himself the center of attention.
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You know, it could be said that she did this to him.... No one knows their relationship but themselves. It seems, once again, that having amazing talent makes people beyond reproach. You accuse him of not caring about his daughter? Well, a case can be made that WH wasn't any better...
Adults are adults. We all make our own decisions. Hooking up with wrong people doesn't mean you get to pass the blame to them. Your life, your choice. But that relationship, at least to my completely outsider life, seems to have been one of co-dependency and they both were able to continue their addictions by finding a fellow enabler.