Our family really enjoyed Cape May Cafe at the Beach Club- our kids were 5 and not quite two when we went and there was something for everyone. It wasn't as raucous as Chef Mickey's and made for a more enjoyable meal. Afterwards we really enjoyed walking around to the Boardwalk and the kids played in the sand a little bit by the Beach Club- a very nice evening.
The food includes seafood, as well as plenty of landlubber choices- prime rib, baked chicken, ribs, salads, veggies, breads, great desserts and chicken strips/macncheese/hotdogs & fish nuggets in the kid's section (although they may eat anything).