We didn't and I'm not going to. We've been together for over 11 years and living together for last 6. I don't need household items at all. I've really done well with buying all our household appliances, glasses, dishes, linens etc. I need stemware but what I want I don't expect anyone else to buy me I'll most likely troll estate sales for the kind of crystal I want. Also we are getting married on Disney Cruise and live northeast so I think everyones gift to me is showing up for my wedding lol.