in Haiti all of the kids would come in in the morning and kiss the teacher because there is a strong feeling that the teacher is an important part of the child's extended family.
That is so wonderful and true! As teachers, I'd guess we spend more
"awake" time w/kids than many parents do (particularly full time working parents) on a weekly basis (weekends not included). Most parents have an hour or two in the morning and a few hours in the evening depending on what time you get home!
Now, please don't go off saying "this isn't true of me" b/c I realize that everyone's case is different. Some parents are home-schoolers and are w/their kids the entire day. Some work from home and do get to see their kids immediately after school, some work part-time, some are SAHMs or SAHDs, some volunteer or work in their child's school. Some parents don't put their kids in an after school program, etc. I'm talking about the parents who work full time 9-5 jobs.
I'm going to use my brother, wife and their kids (elem. school) as a generic example. They work 9-5. The kids get up at 7 am and leave for the bus stop around 7:30. Bus picks them up at 7:40. They're in school all day 8-3), then after school program (3-6) until my brother or his wife can pick them up (5:30 pm). Then, home, dinner, homework maybe soccer practice or ballet, bath and to bed by 8 pm. So, that's 40 mins. in the morning and 2 1/2 hours in the evening. 3 hours and 10 mins. of awake time they get per weekday from their parents. Shave one hour off on one night a week for ballet for her and soccer for him. They're in school for 7 hours (8-3). We'll slice a good hour and a half to cover lunch and special class/day), so that's 5/12 hours the teacher sees his kids per day. 5 1/2 hours that the teacher sees them compared to the 2.10 - 3.10 hours that DB & wife see them per weekday. Big difference, no?
In essence, we do become family. We're the care takers. We're the ones who are w/your kids the most during the week.
Figure it out ... if you're a
full time working parent, how much time does your in-school-full-time (traditional hours) child spend w/you per weekday compared to the time he spends w/his teacher?