Wow! I can't believe your DD is 8 already. It seems like you were just posting pictures of her as a 3 yr old!
For parades and Illuminations, they park the wheelchairs, stollers and
ECVs quite close together, nearly touching, across the front of the viewing area. One or two companions can stand behind. They will allow up to 6 (5 plus the person with a disability) in the handicapped viewing area. Most of the viewing areas have no seating, but if there is any, it will be along the back of the viewing area.
The viewing areas are shown on the special maps for guests with disabilities, but are also marked on all the park maps.
For Illuminations, all of the spots are along the fence, facing the water. The viewing areas at Epcot are:
- On both sides of the entrance to World Showcase. Those spots get very busy and it is not uncommon to have 2 rows of wheelchairs, on behind the other, in those areas.
- Between Canada and the UK. That area is fairly small.
- In front of Germany. That area is also small and fills up quickly. It does have benches along the back of the area. When we were at Epcot in April 2011, that area was already filled by 8:15.
For Illuminations, I would probably just find a spot. Because the show takes place on the water, you can line up with the fence in front of you and no one will be able to get in front of you. If you arrange the rest of your party behind the stroller, your daughter will be protected and separated from others with a fence in front of her.
For MK, the viewing spots are:
- At the hub, in front of the train station - on the side across from City Hall. The disadvantage of that spot is that the area becomes very busy after the parade is over because of people leaving.
- At the hub in front of the castle - on the side facing Tomorrowland. That area is also very crowded because people want to be in the hub area for the fireworks. We have been there when there were 2 rows of wheelchairs.
- In the Liberty Square area, kind of across from the entrance to Hall of Presidents. That area is very small, and there are some places where the space is only one person deep. So you could arrange your family there so no one is behind or next to your DD.
We have also used some areas for MK where we could arrange ourselves so there was no one next to her - places like next to a trash can or a fence. There are some places where you will be a little bit farther away, but can be up against a fence. Look at the maps and the parade route and then you can scout out some possible places earlier in the day.
MK also has a fireworks dessert party in a covered porch area in Tomorrowland Terrace. You will not be right down by the parade, but will be able to see quite well.