graygables
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I Hope You Dance.
My then 12yo w/ Asperger's and PCOS-caused weight issues had worked VERY hard in her jazz dance class, the only activity she'd ever wanted to do. During a class, she fractured her ankle and wound up in a boot for 6 weeks, but she still went to dance class and practiced the upper body and as much lower as she could with crutches. She worked SO HARD. The recital was coming and this was going to be the first time I ever saw my overly-shy, selectively mute child on a stage. The studio measured and ordered costumes without parental input. When the costumes arrived, they gave my DD someone else's costume and it was impossibly small. The other girl got my DD's correct size, but since that girl had "grown" so much, they switched them out. I argued and fussed and we tried to contact the manufacturer to help us out to no avail. After a year of hard work and recovering from an injury, my DD could not dance. The owner of the studio performed her showcase dance to "I Hope You Dance" and I lost it and have lost it ever since. My DD has not danced in 3 years and no longer has any desire to do so. It breaks my heart even now.
My then 12yo w/ Asperger's and PCOS-caused weight issues had worked VERY hard in her jazz dance class, the only activity she'd ever wanted to do. During a class, she fractured her ankle and wound up in a boot for 6 weeks, but she still went to dance class and practiced the upper body and as much lower as she could with crutches. She worked SO HARD. The recital was coming and this was going to be the first time I ever saw my overly-shy, selectively mute child on a stage. The studio measured and ordered costumes without parental input. When the costumes arrived, they gave my DD someone else's costume and it was impossibly small. The other girl got my DD's correct size, but since that girl had "grown" so much, they switched them out. I argued and fussed and we tried to contact the manufacturer to help us out to no avail. After a year of hard work and recovering from an injury, my DD could not dance. The owner of the studio performed her showcase dance to "I Hope You Dance" and I lost it and have lost it ever since. My DD has not danced in 3 years and no longer has any desire to do so. It breaks my heart even now.