What small things make you not trust someone?

[reecejackox]

For some reason people hanging directly outside a pub.

 

[ronandannette]

When someone tries to gossip to me or talks badly about a 3rd party. If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. And double-points if they know the person is someone I'm close to. That makes them both mean and dumb.

 

[mommasita]

When someone tries to gossip to me or talks badly about a 3rd party. If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.

Amen

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Dishonesty

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Dishonesty or insincerity

 

[lisaviolet]

In conversation, liars regularly give added detail - often frivolous information.

 

[Colleen27]

If animals react badly to them.

 

[PollyannaMom]

If they're rude to those helping them (the waitress, the shop clerk, etc.)

 

[indimom]

When they have to make sure everyone (even those not directly involved) need to hear their side of the story. Especially when it's such a minor dispute.
Yeah, I didn't have a bad opinion or red flag before, I do now.... and they did it to themselves.

 

[slo]

Narcissism - when someone shows to much of this I absolutely don’t trust them. These type of people do whatever it takes to not make themselves look bad, or to look better than others. They can lie so much that I don’t think they know they are lying. Yep, never trust a narcissist.

 

[mjkacmom]

If they don’t like animals, especially dogs, and are very open about it.

 

[TippyThomas]

I was well into adulthood before I ever got on the internet. I've learned that people can pretend to be anything they want online and it makes me very suspicious of motives at times.

 

[marcyleecorgan]

People who insist on the gross and invasive option of rolled paper cigarettes .
I understand Addiction, I understand your opinion of "Your Freeeeeeeeeeedoms", I support your right to independently choose for YOURSELF.
So please please please do that! Buy a nicotine patch. Get a vape. Chew that nicotine gum. But stop filling the air with toxic chemicals that other people have no choice to avoid breathing!

/Thank You For Coming To My TED Talk

 

[chickapin parterre]

failure to put away a parking lot shopping cart

 

[Mysterian]

When someone tries to gossip to me or talks badly about a 3rd party. If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. And double-points if they know the person is someone I'm close to. That makes them both mean and dumb.

This, and when they never follow through with whatever they say they’ll do.

 

[Boopuff]

any sort of "off color" comment regarding people, race, service etc..

 

[ronandannette]

This, and when they never follow through with whatever they say they’ll do.

Yep. People who can't be honest enough to just say "no" and own it. No harm, no foul to declining this-that-or-the-other but to say you'll do something and then not do it is just very, very weak character, IMO.

any sort of "off color" comment regarding people, race, service etc..

That sort of talk is just jarring and distasteful - who on earth do they think will find it acceptable, let alone humorous?

 

[RedAngie]

When someone posts dozens of inane threads daily.

 

[JenBush]

There’s a local restaurant near me that is known for good margaritas, but their food ranges from bad to inedible. Anyone who recommends eating there is untrustworthy in my book haha

 

[DisneYE]

If animals react badly to them.

This is so true it's scary.
Years ago when I had a dog, a Siberian husky, he was the sweetest dog, even with most strangers (especially women). But some people that came over to my house as friends, even a girlfriend, he was so aggressive and vicious to them.
Those exact people turned out to be massive jerks, some more than what I'm willing to admit.