To me a great deal depends on the quality of the commute. I moved from a place where I had a half hour commute, to another place with a half hour commute. But the first place that half hour was about 3 miles in bumper to bumper traffic, with construction every other block and crazy drivers, and lots of headaches. My new place? Half an hour straight shot on roads where the traffic moves at a reasonable clip. I used to dread my commute, and now I kind of look forward to some peace in the car.
Similarly, many years ago I used to commute an hour by train and loved it. I got on at the first top, got a seat, read my book, chilled out, got off and walked a few blocks to work. When I moved to my current place it's about an hour by train and I thought "Oooh, maybe I'll do that" but no way did I like that! My stop is in the middle of the line, and it's a crowded line so you're standing packed like sardines, then it transfers at a crazy crowded, noisy, busy station, and the second train is full when it comes. I'd much rather drive!