sweetpeama
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Nov 30, 2013
Instant Pot, Pasta Maker, 3 qt casserole dish, fruit infused water book, infusion water bottle, fruit infusion pitcher, non stick small frying pan, souffle cups, glass 2-4 cup liquid measuring cup with 1/3 cup markings, some tops, a gift card from a store I need certain items I don't want to open in front of my dad and brother or nephew for that matter, and a blu ray/dvd/vhs player as a joint gift for DH and myself are on my wish list. What I am telling my children I want
A day without them fighting or more accurately oldest picking on little one taking her ipad and making her cry
No door slamming
No calling sister baby
No destroying older sister's stuff ( a splat ball that oldest got yesterday was destroyed today)
Major help in getting the house picked up
Some Christmas decorations up
Dishes done
A certain tweenager to drop the attitude of you can't afford to pay me so I am not going to help unless mean mommy who is cranky and crabby shows up and then just enough to pacify and I am too tired I will do it later hiding in my room unless it is to come out and take sister's ipad starts up again.
Oh and it's not fair that sister doesn't have to do as much never mind that the tasks she has learned to do in spite of her disabilities she does immediately and finishes them. As we are able to teach her specifically how we want other tasks done and she can do them without risk of injury or breakage she will do more. When every little task has to be broken into very small steps it takes time and things like dressing herself have taken priority over clean behind the couch and sort things into toss, and keep putting keep items where they belong.
A day without them fighting or more accurately oldest picking on little one taking her ipad and making her cry
No door slamming
No calling sister baby
No destroying older sister's stuff ( a splat ball that oldest got yesterday was destroyed today)
Major help in getting the house picked up
Some Christmas decorations up
Dishes done
A certain tweenager to drop the attitude of you can't afford to pay me so I am not going to help unless mean mommy who is cranky and crabby shows up and then just enough to pacify and I am too tired I will do it later hiding in my room unless it is to come out and take sister's ipad starts up again.
Oh and it's not fair that sister doesn't have to do as much never mind that the tasks she has learned to do in spite of her disabilities she does immediately and finishes them. As we are able to teach her specifically how we want other tasks done and she can do them without risk of injury or breakage she will do more. When every little task has to be broken into very small steps it takes time and things like dressing herself have taken priority over clean behind the couch and sort things into toss, and keep putting keep items where they belong.