Good thought! Adult couple (one Boomer, one GenX). My home park/resort is in California. So, VGC,
Disneyland Hotel and downtown Disney are all connected and I can be ridiculously busy without going to the parks.
The main things I enjoy at the resort: going to the spa, taking classes like yoga or meditation, hanging out at an outdoor bar socializing with the bartender and random people, extremely delicious quick service or table service if it's not a big ordeal to get reservations, theme bar/restaurants (Trader Sam's), gift shop with unique items. The gift shop at the Disneyland Hotel is often my favorite gift shop because it has DVC merchandise, Disneyland Hotel merchandise and Trader Sam's merchandise - often stuff that none of the park shops have.
Looking at some of the WDW resorts, I imagine I'd enjoy the outdoor activities at Fort wilderness like taking a canoe out, visiting horses, driving a golf cart around the property. At the Poly (I already have another pre cruise stay planned there and want something different) I expect I'll enjoy the bars and restaurants and water pageant/fireworks viewing. If tea reopens at the Grand, I'll probably walk over to do that.
I guess I like outdoor activities and access to good food/drinks at the drop of a hat. I'm pretty bummed that SSR doesn't have an open spa.