dsneprincess
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wilkeliza said:I am a success story from a family that was on EBT (we had food stamps and I think some money to help for heat and electricity etc.) and I think the system needs to be reworked. My mother only used it for the necessities but with 3 growing kids and being a single working mother the money was never enough especially when she was out of work on short term disability for a few months. There were some tough times but my mom only used the money to buy our stuff for school and to get us good food so we didn't eat crap every day. She worked hard to get off of the assistance by working her way up as a teacher's assistant in our school.
I'm all for the system being revamped because back home in my neighborhood in TX you see it being abused all the time. The girls in my area are "trained" to get pregnant young so they can be on the program and can get whatever they want. So you see their kids running around in dirty clothes and broken shoes but then mom and boyfriend have iphones, new laptops, and an awesome car. It is sad to see a system that is meant to help people go to crab and back by the abusers of the program. My cousin and I are literately the only girls on our neighborhood who don't have babies and aren't on welfare and it has been that way since we were in high school.
This is an example of exactly how the system is suppose to work and why we keep funding the system. We want to believe in human goodness & helping a mom work hard, supplement her work to feed her kids healthy food so they grow up & make good choices, work hard & don't need to perpetuate the abuse of the system. Congratulations to you & your cousin; it is not easy to stand strong & go against what everyone else is doing or taking the "easy" way out. I, personally, want to believe their are more of these stories in the EBT system than the beer & cigs story!