Wendy & Chuck's PJ and TR Merged 2/4/08 Escape SBP/JIKO: Updated 9/19-Pleasure Island

good to know...i'm seriously considering it...i wouldn't go with a radio guy either, i think i'd pay the best most expensive person in houston to do it...did it hurt?

No, it didn't hurt at all. I thought it might, but it didn't. And recovery time was really quick too. They had me fill a perscription for valium and I took it right when I got to the office (my girlfriend had to go with me to drive me home) and then about a half hour later they adminstered some numbing drops. Then right before the surgery they put more numbing drops in. The most I felt was a little bit of pressure. The worst part was a little bit of a burning smell while the laser was working, but other than that, it was just some pressure. Afterwards I felt great. I started vicodine right away in the office. They taped clear plastic sheilds over my eyes and told me to sleep all afternoon and night. They said to ignore the directions on the vicodine and take what I needed to stay asleep. So I got home and fell asleep around 3pm. DF brought dinner home around 6pm so I ate and took another vicodine and slept until about 10:30, took another vicodine and slept till the next morning. I went into the office the next morning and they took the sheilds off and checked my eyes. But b/c the sheilds were clear, I could already tell that I could see! My vision was a little blurry but within a couple of days it sharpened up. They started me on antibiotic and lubricating drops. I couldn't wear eye makeup for two weeks. But I could see!!!! I didn't go back to work the very next day b/c I didn't want to drive yet (but you could if you had to), but I was fine after that! The big rules were no eye rubbing (hard for me, but I don't do it anymore), no eye makeup and use the drops. It was great, and I would go into debt again in a heartbeat! The only thing that sucks is that now I can see if I missed a spot cleaning the shower! :laughing:
 
No eye rubbing ever?!?!? I don't know if I could manage that. My eye doc said I should hold off on any surgery because I take tae kwon do. If I got hit in the eye I could damage it.
 
As a follow up to our phone planning session on Thursday, my planner sent me an email yesterday.

First things first, FOOD. As I said before, this is important to me. Now, you guys have to let me know... is it excessive to have 8 courses?? My whole dream for a wedding has always been a small, simple ceremony and an elaborate meal... Well, Kathleen was unclear on the menu options. So she got back to me yesterday and the meal I want has 8 (yes EIGHT) courses. Is that too many??? And the price of the menu went up from $120 pp to $125 pp. That's not such a big deal. It just means that we've met the minimum food and bev. requirement (if we end up having a full 20 guests) without any drinks. So alcohol will be above and beyond that. So here is the menu that I choose. Please help me justify my choice!!


Jiko Menu Number 3

Taste of Africa… Dips and African Breads

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Appetizer Platter to Share

Lamb Patis, Lentil Pastilla, and a Market Inspired Appetizer
Served with Assorted Dipping Sauces

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Guest Selection of the Following Starters:

Marinated Tuna

or

Maize Tamales

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Tomato Cucumber Salad with Red Onions and Watermelon Vinaigrette

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This Season’s Soup

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Jiko Sorbet

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Guest Selection of the following Main Plate:

Braised Lamb Shank

Oak Grilled Filet of Beef

Market Fish

Oven Roasted Chicken

Entrees served with our African-Inspired Vegetables and Starches

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Jiko Dessert Sampler

A Taste Of Our Favorite Three Desserts… To Share

(Night of Event: Guest choice of Marinated Tuna or Maize Tamales and Entrée)

DF said it was fine, so I don't know what I'm worried about, other than overstuffing my guests...:rotfl:

Other dining news: We'll have to sit at two tables of 10 each. I had a sneaking suspicion this was going to be the case, and it is in fact true! I'm really bummed about it. I figured the room wasn't large/long enough to put all the tables together so we all could sit at one table. This really bums me out!

Kathleen also checked with the entertainment/music department and the DO have the sheet music to Spectromagic. It's called On This Magic Night. Lyrics courtesy DF:

On this magic night,
A million stars will play beside us,
Cast a spell of light,
Glimmering, shimmering, carouselling
'Round the world tonight,
A symphony in SpectroMagic.
Pure enchantment lights our way!

Now the bad news...
For whatever reason, we cannot postpone our honeymoon shoot for up to a year!?! We have to do it while we are there this trip. The thing is, we're not really honeymooning at Disney. After the wedding on Monday, DF is moving to a hotel in Orlando since he has a conference for work and I'm hanging out with my MOH at Disney. He's going straight to work Tuesday morning!! So now I think that I have to schedule our honeymoon shoot for Saturday morning, followed by tux fittings and then the welcome dinner that night. Hmmm. I guess it'll work. Just not what I wanted to do. Is it selfish that I'm scheduling this at Magic Kingdom, even though I know that DF would prefer to do it at Epcot? Here's the thing, yeah, I think world showcase is pretty. And yeah you get a decent shot with spaceship earth in the background from across the lagoon, BUT MAGIC KINGDOM is MAGIC KINGDOM!! When else do you get really great shots at the fountain or on the carousal? Perhaps even some cool train shots. I just think that in this case my desire outweighs his. Besides, he didn't want to focus on it long enough to make a decision last night, so I went ahead on my own (feeling guilty :guilty: )

Hmmmm... What else has happened? This past Saturday I went to my seamstress, Virgina, and tried on my dress... let me tell you... 15lbs sure does make a difference. That zipper goes up no problem now! :banana: I'm working on five more lbs. and I still want to tone up some. Especially my arms, shoulders and back, which will be completely exposed. So, I joined the community center in my city on saturday. I didn't know about it until a week ago! It's pretty new, they just built a fitness center and huuuuuge pool area. All the cardio machines are precore and pretty nice. They have weight machines and free weights for resistance training. And the best part is that there was a $20 discount on an individual membership, so I paid $38.34 for the first two months and instead of it being $19.17/month for the next 10 months, it'll only be $17.17!! That's a great price. Especially since it's not the grimy Bally's where DF goes and he pays $24/month!

FMIL also went to see Virgina with me, and she's having the red top altered, however, we went to the mall afterwards and I showed her the top that I was thinking of for her... it's a blue two piece with a shell and jacket. It has beading on the front of the shell and along the edges of the jacket. It's pretty awsome, and she liked it, she really liked it!! :cool1: So, she's taking that to Virgina next week to have it tailored a little better and she's all set for the wedding!!

Also my MOH/FSIL finally got the shower invitations out. They hit on saturday in the west (my mom is in AZ) and everyone here in MI got them yesterday. They're very pretty with glitter and what not. But I have to confess, FSIL is unique and she marches to a different beat. She decideds to take these really elegant shower invites with beautiful glitter and fill them in with a bright hot pink pen! :laughing: Then my mom calls me in a panic last night because apparently she forgot to include 3 ppl on her list for the shower and she was afraid that FSIL was going to be upset that she needed to add more people. huh? NO MOM, it'll be fine. Just email her the addresses. Keep in mind FSIL used to work at the same co. as my mom and my mom was her immediate supervisor. Why is my mom afraid of FSIL? Just do what you gotta do, it's not rocket science. :confused3

So, I think that's all the updates for now. I'm just trying to hammer out our final numbers and start wrapping up all the loose ends. 55 days to go... eek!
 
wow, the red shirt dilema is solved! that's great news!!!

i don't like when you say you have 55 days left...that means i have less and that stresses me...:eek:

don't feel guilty about your mk honeymoon shoot idea...and don't feel guilty. all you did was use the situation to your advantage. we have to do that sometimes. besides, you'll be able to get the epcot ball in your sbp shots or other shots at the bw...

i'm confused though, why can't you postpone your honeymoon shoot? i bet they're just being difficult and you CAN do it, they just don't want to. i would understand if you wanted to do it in 2009 (for accounting reasons since it was paid for in 08 or whatever), but they're just being weird.
 

I think your menu sounds great! My DF wants to do all the options to our guests-our reception is at Narcoossee-I'm just afraid of how much it will cost! His argument is they will remember the food!!

I have to agree with you on the Magic Kingdom! Epcot is beautiful but the Magic Kingdom is unique and perfectly Disney!! GO WITH YOUR GUT!:)

Congratulations on 15 lbs-today I decides my New years resolution will be weight loss for the wedding and toning my flabby arms-nothing like procastinating until the new year!!:rotfl: Good luck on the last 5!
 
wow, the red shirt dilema is solved! that's great news!!!

i don't like when you say you have 55 days left...that means i have less and that stresses me...:eek:

don't feel guilty about your mk honeymoon shoot idea...and don't feel guilty. all you did was use the situation to your advantage. we have to do that sometimes. besides, you'll be able to get the epcot ball in your sbp shots or other shots at the bw...

i'm confused though, why can't you postpone your honeymoon shoot? i bet they're just being difficult and you CAN do it, they just don't want to. i would understand if you wanted to do it in 2009 (for accounting reasons since it was paid for in 08 or whatever), but they're just being weird.


Yeah, they are just being weird. I was quite shocked when I read the email:

"The Alternate photo session does need to booked during your stay here for your wedding rather than on a future visit, so just let me know which day you'd like to do it and I'll get that scheduled"

And it's kind of a bummer b/c it's one less thing to use as incentive to get DF back to the world in the next year.

Oh and I am sooooo HAPPY the red top dillema is resolved too! I didn't want to forever look back at my pictures and be :mad:
 
The menu sounds really good! I've never been to Jiko. What does dessert to share mean? Dont stress about the 2 tables... you cant see/hear the person at the other end of a large table anyways. 2 tables will be lots easier to get in and out from anyways.

What did you decide with Carolyn Allens?
 
i don't like when you say you have 55 days left...that means i have less and that stresses me...:eek:

I AGREE!!! Lets just pretend we have unlimited time so we dont get over stressed!!:thumbsup2

:lmao: So, I'm not the only one completely freaked out that time is slipping by? :hourglass


I think your menu sounds great! My DF wants to do all the options to our guests-our reception is at Narcoossee-I'm just afraid of how much it will cost! His argument is they will remember the food!!

I have to agree with you on the Magic Kingdom! Epcot is beautiful but the Magic Kingdom is unique and perfectly Disney!! GO WITH YOUR GUT!:)

Congratulations on 15 lbs-today I decides my New years resolution will be weight loss for the wedding and toning my flabby arms-nothing like procastinating until the new year!!:rotfl: Good luck on the last 5!

Even though I feel like I've leveled off and been stuck for quite awhile, I think the last 5 will melt away a little easier now that I've started working out. I did the first 15 with just diet (and by diet I mean eating small amounts of good for you foods all the time, I'm a foodie and can't stand to be hungry or starve myself, that will just never work!) Moving my body is the last piece of the puzzle. Thank goodness I'm taking my last final tonight and then the semester is over and I'll have a good few weeks to reallly hit the gym.

It seems a shame though to do all this work, just to get to Disney and then our (non-disney) cruise after and eat, eat, eat our way back to not being skinny people anymore!

The menu sounds really good! I've never been to Jiko. What does dessert to share mean? Dont stress about the 2 tables... you cant see/hear the person at the other end of a large table anyways. 2 tables will be lots easier to get in and out from anyways.

What did you decide with Carolyn Allens?

I think the dessert to share means it will be a lot like the appetizer platter to share. I think it includes three different desserts in small portions for everyone to try a bit of each. This is just a huge guess though!

I'm trying to make peace with the tables. Kathleen, my planner, is going to send me a diagram so I can do a seating chart and ship place cards ahead to her.

I def. think I'm going to used Carolyn Allens and ship my dress ahead to them. I know I need to call them but I've been so busy I'm finding it hard to fit all of these tasks in. I don't want to call in between work and school while I'm in my car, b/c I want to be able to take notes to make sure I've captured all the details. Thank goodness the semester is over for me after tonight!


ALSO
Kathleen emailed me with a time for our MK honeymoon shoot... Saturday the 2nd at 9:30am. I'm okay with that. Does anyone know how long this usually lasts? I also have to schedule the tux fitting for DF and his BM for this day. And, does anyone think I'll be able to convince all the right people to get some shots on or near the train at main street??
:rolleyes1
 
call me the denial queen, but time is NOT slipping by...

lol... again I agree with Caryn! ;)

Wendy, where are you going on a non-disney cruise to? Rob and I are doing Carnival's Southern Caribbean leaving out of Puerto Rico. I agree with you about the eating! thats the whole point of our disney vacation and then our cruise also! :banana:

about the pics at/near the train station.. i'm sure this will be ok, but you may want to call disney photography yourself and stress why it is important to you... they're more than willing to bend over backwards if you have a special story like that.
 
I know I'm a bit late...but I had been lurking for some time and was too shy to write for a while... but here are my thoughts...

Your dress is gorgeous!!! I love so many of the dresses I have seen here and I LOVE my dress, but I'm actually jealous of yours. It's sooooo elegant. I wanted a trumpet/mermaid style dress, but I definitely don't have the right proportions to pull it off. You look amazing.

I am sorry about everything you have gone through with your FMIL. I don't understand why they just can't be normal and loving and accepting. One of my BM's has a theory that MILs who do not have daughters are particularly bad, but your DF does have a sister. So of course there are exceptions. I'm sure your scrapbooking help relieve some of the stress she creates.

:goodvibes
 
Wendy, where are you going on a non-disney cruise to? Rob and I are doing Carnival's Southern Caribbean leaving out of Puerto Rico. I agree with you about the eating! thats the whole point of our disney vacation and then our cruise also! :banana:

We're doing a Carnival Cruise too. It leaves out of Cape Canveral which is great b/c it's soooo close to Disney. We were also looking at a Royal Carribean out of Miami, but it was more $$ and farther away, so Carnival it is. I pushed really, really, really hard for a Disney Cruise but DF wasn't having any of that. I can't understand why not! :rolleyes1

I know I'm a bit late...but I had been lurking for some time and was too shy to write for a while... but here are my thoughts...

Your dress is gorgeous!!! I love so many of the dresses I have seen here and I LOVE my dress, but I'm actually jealous of yours. It's sooooo elegant. I wanted a trumpet/mermaid style dress, but I definitely don't have the right proportions to pull it off. You look amazing.

I am sorry about everything you have gone through with your FMIL. I don't understand why they just can't be normal and loving and accepting. One of my BM's has a theory that MILs who do not have daughters are particularly bad, but your DF does have a sister. So of course there are exceptions. I'm sure your scrapbooking help relieve some of the stress she creates.

:goodvibes

Hope!! I'm sooo glad you came out of lurking. No need to be shy around here. Everyone is so friendly and welcoming. Thank you so much for your compliments on my dress. I'm still in shock over it sometimes. It was the first dress I tried on at the first store I went to! And only $600. The wedding dress deities were smiling down on me, I think. And I was really dreading the whole dress shopping experience. It's quite funny though, b/c the same day I found my dress, DF surprised me with a brand new iPhone for no reason out of no where (they had just come out the day before) and so now I will forever remember the day that I got my wedding dress as the day that I got my iPhone and vise versa. I can't quite figure out which was more exciting. I tell you what though... that was one happy day!

As far as my FMIL goes.. sometimes I feel guilty and feel like maybe I make her out to be worse than she is. Perhaps I need to just accept her for who she is. But then it would stand to reason that that should work both ways and she should also accept me for who I am. I guess it's just a very unique situation. My saving grace is my amazing DF. I know that when it comes to the big stuff, he's always going to stand by me. And he's amazing at diffusing icky situations. I guess I just need to grow a thicker skin and let all the small stuff just bounce off and not take it to heart. If I added up all the stange, mean, hurtful things she has said or done, I would add her to my 'never talk to again' list. Yet, that's just not an option. Not to harp, b/c it's not always bad. She's very generous with me. She thinks of me in different situations and can be very kind . :flower3: So, I'm pretty sure that not everything she does/says is malicious. It's really that she is (very much like me) and emotion person, and she reacts a lot of times with out thinking. And she's very old school and has her own way. Acceptance is KEY! :cheer2: I'm working on it. :laughing:
 
As far as my FMIL goes.. sometimes I feel guilty and feel like maybe I make her out to be worse than she is. Perhaps I need to just accept her for who she is. But then it would stand to reason that that should work both ways and she should also accept me for who I am. I guess it's just a very unique situation. My saving grace is my amazing DF. I know that when it comes to the big stuff, he's always going to stand by me. And he's amazing at diffusing icky situations. I guess I just need to grow a thicker skin and let all the small stuff just bounce off and not take it to heart. If I added up all the stange, mean, hurtful things she has said or done, I would add her to my 'never talk to again' list. Yet, that's just not an option. Not to harp, b/c it's not always bad. She's very generous with me. She thinks of me in different situations and can be very kind . :flower3: So, I'm pretty sure that not everything she does/says is malicious. It's really that she is (very much like me) and emotion person, and she reacts a lot of times with out thinking. And she's very old school and has her own way. Acceptance is KEY! :cheer2: I'm working on it. :laughing:

I completely understand about your FMIL, sounds a lot like mine except mine doesn't really have any moments of being very kind :laughing:
 

First, I love your PJ. Second, your FMIL sounds lilke a piece of work I agree. My MIL and FIL are both deceased but I never had issues with them. They were both very nice to me. Third, what does idk mean? Sorry, I don't know what thay means and I can't figure it out.

Laura :flower3:
 
First, I love your PJ. Second, your FMIL sounds lilke a piece of work I agree. My MIL and FIL are both deceased but I never had issues with them. They were both very nice to me. Third, what does idk mean? Sorry, I don't know what thay means and I can't figure it out.

Laura :flower3:

Thanks for reading. Sometimes I get down on myself b/c I don't have this amazing writing style like some other posters on this board. I've read some really amazing PJs and TRs with excellent tone and style.

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had such an good relationship with your MIL and FIL. To add extra fuel to the fire, my FMIL never ever got along with her MIL who just recently passed away. And she can't recognize that she does a lot of the same things to me that her MIL did to her. :idea: :rolleyes:

idk means... I don't know. idk = i don't know. :goodvibes And just for the record, I didn't know what it meant for a long time either. So I was just as lost. But once you get the shorthand, it's kinda hard to not use it. Sometimes when I'm talking about the wedding rather than saying "fiance" I want to actually say "DF" :sad2: I'm a dork. I know it's true!
 
DF went and did it! Filled up two spots. He asked his friend Rosie from work. I haven't met her yet, but he claims we'll get along well. She'll already be in Orlando for the trade show they have to attend for work, so this works out well. Then he convinced his friend Nikki who lives in AZ to come. She's the only one we truely beleived was as strapped for $$ as she claimed to be. So DF is going to try to use his airline miles to get her a plane ticket and we're going to help out with her room. She's only going to come for the wedding though, not the welcome dinner. So, we'll see how it all works out. I feel like there are so many logistics to figure out on both sides and as if it's all up to me! Eeeek!

I was over booked my weekend, so I'm kinda stressed out and I'm not looking forward to work ending today. :scared1:

I also invited very, very close friends of the family to fill the other two spots. So now i'm actually waiting on them to have my firm number. I have to give them a call tonight or tomorrow to see where things stand.

Beyond that, School is officially done until the second week of January. I hope to get all my Christmas shopping done (I just started today:laughing: ). Then I want to work on place cards, welcome bags for the welcome dinner. I've decided not to do a favor for the actual wedding. I also have been encouraging both my mother and DF's mom to get there actual wedding lists together. My big goal for this break from school is to design and produce our save the date cards for our at home reception. I want to have them DONE. Lables and everything. Ready to go out right after we get married. Now, I just have to figure out how to word them. Everything I've read up on says that 'officially' it's not proper etiquette to send an announcement to anyone you invite to your wedding or your reception. Only send an announcement to those you don't invite to either. So, officially I'm sending just a save the date for the at home reception (in June.) But I want to put some sort of wording about the wedding in there. I just haven't figured out how. The onlything I've figured out is the last two lines...

So Save the Date
To Celebrate
June XX, 2008

Leading up to that though, I've got nothing. I'm not married to my lame lines either. Does anyone have any suggestions? How am I going to word these things???
 
Maybe instead of a save the date can you send a marriage announcement, and then on the bottom put your reception info?
 














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