Didn't rain so we went to the pool party. I was hoping that my son's friend would be there so I could just sit and watch so I didn't take my swim suit. But the other boy didn't show up so I ended up running home and getting my suit on and going back to the pool so i could jump in with him. He was playing by himself and I felt sorry for him. But I do have to say he eventually ended up playing with a cute little girl who was in his VBS class. So they played together for about 45 minutes. It was nice!
Elaine...glad you got out into the heat! You can come here on Wednesday...they are expecting it to be at least 100 here!!

I need to go bra shopping too but since I can't seem to find any non mom jeans I'm not about to go out and look for bras. I actually do have one VS that i really like but it has been practically worn out and I don't really want to spend that much on a bra again.
As for the shy....believe it or not in person I'm much more shy than I am here. Actually, i was very shy in the beginning and didn't post or say much until i got to know people better. In person when I'm at a party or gathering I'm usually standing to one side watching the party waiting for the "right" time to jump in. Now if I go with someone, like Astrid or Emily, then I'm fine as long as they are near me...but if they walk away i suddenly get the dry mouth, the profuse sweating, and the need to get a strong drink ASAP!!
Not sure if I have ever given you all the list of former boyfriends....
1. the Mormon who was saving himself for his next marriage who ended up meeting a 14 year old girl on the internet and raping and beating her...he went to jail for a while...as well as the twenty something male friend of his who went along to take the pictures
2. the guy I went out with and on the 2nd date he nearly got into a fist fight and yelled to the other guy, "man I'm on parole I can't hit you"...uh yeah, the other guy didn't have to want to hit him I was ready to do so...he had told me he had been gone from town for a couple fo years but never explained why...then I knew
3. and the guy I was ready to move away with who turned out to be a pathological liar and when I really thought about it about two years after we broke up...a lot of the stuff he said and did to me was emotionally and slightly physically abusive...but that took two years to finally admit.
Then there is Jar's dad....

nice guy but has "issues" to say the least.
There were a couple of other guys that weren't as bad as these but most had more issues/problems than i could deal with! (alcoholism, wives, etc.)
anyway, I need to go to bed. I got lots of skeeter bites at the pool so I'm going to take some benedryl and go to bed!!
tara