Weird Relationship Question

[Disney Doll]

A 20 year old guy living at home (not too terrible...as long as he's working to build a nest egg so he can move out).

A 20 year old guy with a job who does not have a car to get to work (again, not terrible if there are public transit options for him to use regularly).

A 20 year old guy with a job, living with his parents, who has the money to buy a car but doesn't do it and uses his girlfriend as his personal chauffeur, balks at giving her any money for gas, and then gets mad if she's otherwise engaged and can't drop what she's doing on a moment's notice to take him to work, home, the beach, and anywhere else he has to go (not good).

I think you're too young to be caught up in a relationship with an immature guy like this. I don't think your family is right in making you think that you have some obligation to him. It's nice to help out your BF once in a while, but if he's using you as a personal driver, and refuses to help pay the costs, and then gets angry when you're busy, then it might be time to move on and look for a more mature date.

What she said.
fliturngirl, you must run away from him as if your pants are on fire!

 

[GoofyBaby]

OP, your BF is not a man, but a manIPULATOR! Turn 180 degrees and run! You will save yourself so much grief by doing this now.

 

[disneymarie]

Hi! Sorry this may be long..

My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now.. Not offical until a couple of months ago. Well he does not have a car, has the money to buy one but keeps pushing it back until a month later. Well when he has work he always, I mean no matter what time he has to work, asks me to take him in. As well as pick him up from work. He does not live that far from work and could walk or take the bus. He is still living at home and his parents won't pick him up or let him use their car.

Is it something that I should be so upset over by taking him to work? He will ask me all the time even if I have other plans and gets angry if I am in the middle of something. Don't get me wrong he is a nice person and I truly like him but I get so annoyed that by any phone call from him it could be a phone call for a ride and not for a night out with him.

Also when we go places I am obviously driving. He will get upset if I ask him for gas money, going to the beach cost 30 bucks to get gas, we talked about him paying for gas before and he just was not happy when he found out how much it was going to cost him.

So if you have read this message to now... My question is; Am I wrong for asking him for gas money? And should I be obligated to take him to and from work?

What would Judge Judy say, You must have seen these cases many, many times,
Do you want a man to be mutual in the relationship, or use you for wheels. A good man, first would have a car, or if something happened like it was in the shop would pay for gas without asking. He also would not impose on your plans making his a priority,

Sorry maybe be a friend material for a night out, but not a horse I would hitch my carriage to....