mrzrich
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I need that advice. I have a LOT to lose. LIke Biggest Loser, a lot. It's really overwhelming and many days I feel like I don't even want to bother because I am afraid to try again. I will concentrate on your suggestion.
When I started WW last April I had over 100 pounds to lose. I couldn't face that number. Instead, I think of it as losing 1 lb - 107 times. Somehow I can handle it better when I think about it like that.
I decided to take it in small obtainable short term goals. 5 lbs , 10 lbs, 5 %, 10 %, etc. When I reach one of my goals I treat myself with a non food reward. (New running shoes, a WW food scale, new bras, new clothes, etc) I try to think of it in a simpler way.
The most important thing that has made this time different then all the rest is "KEEP MOVING FOWARD" even if I know I have a gain, I still go to my meeting. I started WW April 2010 with 5 other women from work. In the first few weeks 3 of them had dropped out. By the 3rd month the other 2 stopped coming as well. Now at work they all look at me and remark on the 53 pounds I 've lost. I want to shake them and say "IF YOU HADN"T QUIT, YOU'D HAVE LOST A LOT BY NOW TOO!" Just Don't Quit! Thats the most important advice I can give anyone. If you over eat, just forgive yourself and move on.
In the past if I binged, I would just keep bingeing and quit. Now if I fall off the wagon, I track what I ate and I get back on program immediately. Often times by tracking I realize that what I thought was a big binge was actually within my weekly points. I just try to be good the rest of the week. If I do gain, I don't beat myself up, I just try harder the next week.
Here on this thread a favorite saying we share with one another to celebrate our small losses is :
.2 pounds is a stick of butter off my hips!