We love the BWI. We feel that many have a phobia of clowns and understand your decision not to stay at BWI. My perspective on the entire feel of the Disney Boardwalk is as any boardwalk. After studying boardwalks at Coney Island, Ocean City NJ and Maryland.
During the day they are for everyone. There's a dark side to all of these places something sinister regarding the atmosphere. Especially at night. Thus the eyes being lit at night scaring the hell out of guests. I look at it as Disney has done what they set out to do. They put you in the boardwalk state of mind.
Just as they do with their parks they take you to a different place. A beach resort, a yacht club. Thats why we absolutely love the BWI and the clown it really would not be the correct atmosphere without it.
Enjoy your alternate choice...and have a great vacation!