WBRepo-Ship of Thieves-Remember the Magic Pt 20

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How about picking one small area--a cabinet or closet or shelf or whatever.
Then
Put a box on the floor nearby and go through that one space and take out each item that you KNOW you will NOT want in Florida and put each thing in the box.

When you have Finished the "space of the day" you quit. When John gets home he puts the box in the car or truck for the next convenient time to make a run to a place you can donate it. Someone there will get use out of it and you have a few less items to deal with.

As you work your way around the house you are slowly making decisions and creating space to use for packing and staging later on.

Some things will stay in the house until a future look at the same cabinet or even make it to Florida and then you will decide that it needs to live with someone else.

It's all good though--slow and steady!


:confused3. Maybe ??

It sounds so easy when you say it.....but there's no place to donate it to. I can just get rid of clothes and shoes. When we cleared out my mother's house.....well, actually my brother did....he said he couldn't donate anything, not even a book to the local library. Nobody wanted it. So all I can do is throw it out.

I don't mean to make excuses. I'm sure your method will work and I will give it a good try. But probably not until I get back from my cruise in Sept. My brain is focusing on that right now and I'm only just starting to think about how to pack out this house. We'll see what happens.

Thanks for making it easier for me to do when I get started.

 
Well, I can't promise my umph will last. It never does. But I keep trying, hoping one day it will stick with me. Just keep swimming!

Hang in there Michelle! :hug:

I like V's way of looking at it.....the struggle of eating less and moving more.....just keep swimming. If you keep going, eventually you'll get there.

That's how it worked for me when I quit smoking too....I had to keep trying to quit until one time it stuck.

Keep trying to lose that weight and one day you will succeed. Just don't stop trying. Or....just keep swimming.

I have to do the same thing.
 
Deb...

If it gets too overwhelming to think about cleaning out the house...

you might want to contact a professional organizer who can help you decide what to take and what to get rid of. It would probably be money worth investing in. They could probably help you thin things out so that any money spent would probably help you save money on the moving expenses also...

Just a thought...
 
Quiet day again here at Casa QM...

it's a little cooler... thank God!!!

so far the plants have survived the heat. I have to go and give everything a good watering, but I'll wait until after dinner or else it will just evaporate..
 

I like V's way of looking at it.....the struggle of eating less and moving more.....just keep swimming. If you keep going, eventually you'll get there.

That's how it worked for me when I quit smoking too....I had to keep trying to quit until one time it stuck.

Keep trying to lose that weight and one day you will succeed. Just don't stop trying. Or....just keep swimming.

I have to do the same thing.
Well I'm doing better than I've ever done with exercise this time, but the food part now needs some work. I just can't seem to get both together at the same time. But eventually it will all sync up. :thumbsup2
 
Deb: You have to do what works for you. You know how to pace yourself to maximize your health and this is a part of that. :hug:


What I have done is to take my boxes of cast-offs to Salvation Army or GoodWill and donate them. When we moved here, there was a Christian School having a yard sale to raise money for their 8th grade trip to Washington DC so I donated 4 or 5 boxes of mixed items to them.

I know you may not have any of those options nearby, but perhaps John can deliver to such a place when he heads in to work. If that is an option, when you are ready to tackle the process, you have a plan for disposal.

Are there any antique shops in your area? What we consider useless would be someone else's antique so if you have some, you could call them about donating.

I don't care about getting a tax write off or commission for the items. Since I want them gone, it is the same as if they were thrown away, only I know someone may get some use out of them when I donate.


:boat: HOPING YOU ENJOY THE CRUISE !! :sail:
 
Deb..

there's a ton of places John could drop off things in Newark... they'll take clothes etc.
 
Deb..

there's a ton of places John could drop off things in Newark... they'll take clothes etc.

and collectables too I bet.

I find all sorts of things at Salvation Army store from Wedding Gowns to ties to Tupperware to salt shakers without matchng pepper shakers and even parts from toys.



(Michelle--John may not be too happy if we plant these ideas in Deb's head :rotfl: )



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Better to get it figured out now than to have to face it last minute when they move...

(and John... sorry...)
 
We have loads of charity shops which welcome bags of things. Are they called Thrift Shops over there? We are always filling bags. They even collect at times.

We have Oxfam(overseas aid), Help the Aged, Shelter(homeless), British heart Foundation, Cancer Research, a local Hospice, Arthritis research, etc etc. Plus a big warehouse where a Christian charity will give to the needy in the local area via the council or take abroad. It might mean John filling his truck and going to a bigger town to find places.

However the work involved in sorting through the home can be very overfacing and actually very hard work. I bet you are looking at it and thinking it is too big a job right now, I know I would be and setting off little panics inside.
 
Some great ideas! Deb, I don't envy your task. I had a hard enough time getting started cleaning, for the same reasons. But now that about half our stuff is gone, it's much easier. HOWEVER, I wasn't trying to get rid of a whole house, so I just can't imagine how hard a job you've got facing you! :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug: If I lived close enough, I'd drive over with Tyler to help. He's the king of organization. :thumbsup2
 
Deb: You have to do what works for you. You know how to pace yourself to maximize your health and this is a part of that. :hug:


What I have done is to take my boxes of cast-offs to Salvation Army or GoodWill and donate them. When we moved here, there was a Christian School having a yard sale to raise money for their 8th grade trip to Washington DC so I donated 4 or 5 boxes of mixed items to them.

I know you may not have any of those options nearby, but perhaps John can deliver to such a place when he heads in to work. If that is an option, when you are ready to tackle the process, you have a plan for disposal.

Are there any antique shops in your area? What we consider useless would be someone else's antique so if you have some, you could call them about donating.

I don't care about getting a tax write off or commission for the items. Since I want them gone, it is the same as if they were thrown away, only I know someone may get some use out of them when I donate.


:boat: HOPING YOU ENJOY THE CRUISE !! :sail:

When we were moving from OR to MT, downsizing drastically!!!, we had trouble getting rid of some stuff. No one will take exercise equipment - and believe me ours was hardly used!!! :rotfl2: Furniture is also difficult to get rid of, but we did find a Christian place called Love Inc in Oregon that would take good used furniture. They did not sell it, but gave it to people that were in need for free. Salvation Army and Goodwill took lots of things, but we still wound up filling 3 30 yard dumpsters just to get rid of "stuff", ie. Total Gym 2000, Body by Jake, etc. etc. I will say that not all of it was ours though. We had 2 garages, a shed and a barn. One of the garages, the shed and barn became "storage" over the 20 years for several family members and over time mice and weather turned alot of it into junk. I do not envy you, Deb, but getting an early start is a very good idea.

Some great ideas! Deb, I don't envy your task. I had a hard enough time getting started cleaning, for the same reasons. But now that about half our stuff is gone, it's much easier. HOWEVER, I wasn't trying to get rid of a whole house, so I just can't imagine how hard a job you've got facing you! :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug: If I lived close enough, I'd drive over with Tyler to help. He's the king of organization. :thumbsup2

Another idea, Deb. (we are full of them, aren't we!!:lmao:) Is there a youngster you could pay a little to help you. I'm thinking you could sit and give directions and she/he could do the actual moving around of stuff....like wrap and put in a box to move, or put into giveaway box or put in throw away pile. My uncle had to inventory all of his belongings for court - 50 years worth of stuff from 2 marriages :scared1: - because the son of his second wife sued him after she passed and was trying to take everything he had in addition to what he and she had together. :sad2: He hired a young woman to help him. She dug thru everything, he wrote it down. He was in his mid 80s and could not have managed without the help. I'm thinking young teen, too young to get a "real" job that might like to make some summer spending money. We have a 13 year old neighbor girl that did some weeding for us to earn money for church camp this summer. She also will do other tasks. Just another thought. :hug:
 
These are all great ideas.....I'm taking notes.....hahaha.

I was talking to the kid today.....he cleans our house and gets paid for it.....when he was over here today we discussed clearing out this house. Whatever I don't want, he may want and then there's the donating and then the garbage. So I'm going to do the sorting with him. He can help move things into their proper piles. He even knows where the salvation army is that takes donations locally. So he will ride a box or two down there every weekend as necessary. I told him that I'm just thinking about everything now and how I want to tackle it. I told him that we won't start until after my cruise. That will give us 5 or 6 months to still get it done. We'll work on it every weekend all winter. That should put us into good shape to leave when we're ready.

I appreciate everyone's input here, it really does help.
 
We have loads of charity shops which welcome bags of things. Are they called Thrift Shops over there? We are always filling bags. They even collect at times.

I have tried this at times with Ann, but she keeps wriggling out! :flower3::flower3:
 
However the work involved in sorting through the home can be very overfacing and actually very hard work. I bet you are looking at it and thinking it is too big a job right now, I know I would be and setting off little panics inside.

Yeah moving with do that to you. When we moved last time we had a very short time in which to do it... and I also had to go to TX for Mark's graduation...

Some great ideas! Deb, I don't envy your task. I had a hard enough time getting started cleaning, for the same reasons. But now that about half our stuff is gone, it's much easier. HOWEVER, I wasn't trying to get rid of a whole house, so I just can't imagine how hard a job you've got facing you! :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug: If I lived close enough, I'd drive over with Tyler to help. He's the king of organization. :thumbsup2

Yup.. the house would be clear in 1 weekend!!! :thumbsup2:thumbsup2:thumbsup2

I have tried this at times with Ann, but she keeps wriggling out! :flower3::flower3:

Wriggling huh??? :dance3::dance3:
 
These are all great ideas.....I'm taking notes.....hahaha.

I was talking to the kid today.....he cleans our house and gets paid for it.....when he was over here today we discussed clearing out this house. Whatever I don't want, he may want and then there's the donating and then the garbage. So I'm going to do the sorting with him. He can help move things into their proper piles. He even knows where the salvation army is that takes donations locally. So he will ride a box or two down there every weekend as necessary. I told him that I'm just thinking about everything now and how I want to tackle it. I told him that we won't start until after my cruise. That will give us 5 or 6 months to still get it done. We'll work on it every weekend all winter. That should put us into good shape to leave when we're ready.

I appreciate everyone's input here, it really does help.

That sounds like a great plan, Deb. Now relax, heal and don't even think about it until after the cruise. :hug:
 
Definitely going to bed early tonight. Can barely keep my eyes open! Shooting for 9pm bedtime. :goodvibes
 
Then get off the damn computer and get ready for bed Holly!!! the QM says 9 pm and no.. you cannot stay up late reading and no.. you don't need a drink of water... :rotfl2:
 
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