I'm a rum and coke girl but the drink I was having this night was a Bahama Mama - oj, pinapple juice, grenadine, some other stuff...and rum
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Deb- I'm sorry I didn't call you back yesterday. Just so very tired. I txt replied to those who txted but I had called you so I didn't have that on my list to "reply"
I never thought you were going to call me back, I just wanted to kow if anyone heard from you yet. I don't have your number so I can't text you to find out. We'll have to fix that.
The surgery went well, they did take the lymthnodes

which means the cancer did spread. maybe by friday we'll have the biopsy results that will give us the staging - which is how long she has. We won't be doing and chemo or raditation as it is truely a quality of life choice for her.
I'm sad
Oh no Nan, I didn't think the news was going to be this bad. I am so very sorry to hear about it. I think it's a wise choice to give her the quality of life instead of so many treatments....since they found out that it had already spread throughout.
I know exactly how you're feeling and it's not good. Big Hugs.
So - today not so good. Sis got mom all settled in her nursing care and within an hour of sis leaving mom pulled out her drain. The maint of the drain was why she was in nursing care. So she is home and will have to be taken to the doctor to have the fluid removed as it accumulates. Which is more risk of infection and painful to endure the removal of course.
And lastly the worst part of the whole thing was dealing with my sisters. One of them had the nerve to complain that she didn't know what was going on with mom and her surgery. It isn't enough that we take care of mom now we have to translate everything for the know nothing

If she wants more info she can drag her sorry butt to the doctor appointments. I tell ya no more room in my life for this kinda bs.
I can't even imagine how hard it is without the support of your sisters. My brother was an angel he took care of the house. I took care of mom. We were both working together. The very last thing your family needs is for the two sisters to start causing problems. It's like Karen did to me and my brother. Just kick them out. Tell them they are not welcome unless they are nice. You don't need the added stress.
and Paul likes his job - has his own office with a window