Ian, Michelle, Holly and anyone else

for getting through funerals.
People can be so odd.
The smartest old person I knew sent a letter to all his descendants. If they wanted anything, they had to come to see him, sign their name on a piece of tape and put it on the back of the item. No one could tag something for someone else. When he was done with things he mailed or shipped them off. If he was still using them, they were shipped off when he died. Shipping expenses were paid out of his estate first, then money was given to some colleges and charities. I do not think there was much money left, but everyone got an equal share of what was left no matter their age.
He had 13 kids and each of them had a couple kids or more so he left a HUGE family and no one fought.
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