greeneyedchick
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Socially, much harder with cameras capturing every embarassing thing you ever said or did. Not to mention the risk that you "liked" a post or made a joke on social media that will cause you to loose your job 20 years from now.
I'm 50/50 on the academics. When I was in school, we weren't allowed to take more than 1 AP class a year because they're a lot of work. Now the kids are expected to take 4-5 AP courses at a time. But my kids seem to have less homework than I did and doing research for their papers, it's a lot faster with the internet. They can also "read" audiobooks and textbooks. My oldest avoided the whole AP thing and opted for duel enrollment and CLEP tests. Saved 2 years of college that way. She felt that the college classes were easier and less work than the high school ones. She encourages everyone to skip the AP and go right to taking community college classes and CLEP tests in high school. And did you know that your child can take the AP test even if they don't take the class? If you have a motiviated self-learner, they can avoid the large amount of school work associated with the AP, study for the test and get the credit. But I digress...
I do think there is a lot more pressure for everyone to take the top classes and get straight As for the tiny chance of getting into an Ivy League. My parents put that pressure on me and it was awful. I swore I wouldn't do it to my kids. They should enjoy school and then get a degree from somewhere that doesn't cost more than my first house to attend. Now that I thnk about it more, I think it's much harder to be a kid these days.
I'm 50/50 on the academics. When I was in school, we weren't allowed to take more than 1 AP class a year because they're a lot of work. Now the kids are expected to take 4-5 AP courses at a time. But my kids seem to have less homework than I did and doing research for their papers, it's a lot faster with the internet. They can also "read" audiobooks and textbooks. My oldest avoided the whole AP thing and opted for duel enrollment and CLEP tests. Saved 2 years of college that way. She felt that the college classes were easier and less work than the high school ones. She encourages everyone to skip the AP and go right to taking community college classes and CLEP tests in high school. And did you know that your child can take the AP test even if they don't take the class? If you have a motiviated self-learner, they can avoid the large amount of school work associated with the AP, study for the test and get the credit. But I digress...
I do think there is a lot more pressure for everyone to take the top classes and get straight As for the tiny chance of getting into an Ivy League. My parents put that pressure on me and it was awful. I swore I wouldn't do it to my kids. They should enjoy school and then get a degree from somewhere that doesn't cost more than my first house to attend. Now that I thnk about it more, I think it's much harder to be a kid these days.