A lot of us live in places that are realistic I'm sorry you don't. If you want to live in one of the most expensive cities in the US then embrace it, but don't make excuses. Our mortgage is 5% of our income and we don't make half what you make.
I'll stay here, where we have lots of high paying jobs, excellent healthcare, diversity, plentiful and healthy food, entertainment options, parks and outdoor nature preserves, beaches, mountains, and excellent schools and social supports for people with disabilities. We have 2 disabled kids we need to consider long term. They are our priority. This is where they were born and consider home. I'm not risking their mental health and well being by moving them out of the area.
We will just keep renting. We have gone this long never owning a home and can keep being renters forever as far as I'm concerned.
I'm still allowed to complain about the price of houses and our inability to afford to buy one.
And we don't live in some big city. It's not like we are in NYC or San Francisco. We are in a "city" that is basically a suburban area. It's a city by definition, but not in anyone's opinion an actual city. AND, it's the entire REGION that is unaffordable, not just this city. Moving to another city in the county is pointless.